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on March 1, 2017
The idea is crazy: you meet a person online, and they send you their hard earned money.
I mean, why would any sane and self-respecting submissive do such a thing? Wouldn’t it be better for them to set that money on fire? At least then it would burn prettily.
And yet financial domination is real, and for those of us in tune with its pleasures, it is a wonderful way to express our dominant tendencies.
Let’s start with the anonymity. Sure, the Submissive we recieve money from may not be “real,” per se… but so what? This is a fantasy, and as long as the person is participating actively in the fantasy, who cares? It’s not like this is the prelude to some Nicholas Sparks romance where the two of you wind up hitched.
On the contrary, the beauty of anonymity is that the relationship is based SOLELY on transactions like this. The financial dominant, in other words, is the rock on which the dynamic is built. It is a pure form of domination — as pure as pure gets.
Second, it’s something within the reach of almost anyone. Some submissives — maybe even most! — live double lives. There are subs who have families, or serious girlfriends, or parents in whose basements they live — people, in short, who might notice if they came home one day wearing a metal collar with whip welts on their back. But this? Anyone can participate. All it takes is cash, and everyone has SOME cash.
Third, the submissive doesn’t deserve the money. It’s true. Sub men are pathetic losers who will waste it on beer or porn or ironic t-shirts or rock concerts or ammo or, I don’t know, sports car payments. Screw that. The funds should go to the domme, because she will spend that money better than you can.
Finally, and most importantly, financial domination is intensely humiliating. Because by giving your dominant money, you are essentially laboring for their benefit. You are being exploited. You are a SLAVE, much more so than if you lick boots or eat your own cum or whatever. Findom is about control, but most of all, it’s about financial control. That makes it as authentic as any form of domination/slavery can be.
I mean, why would any sane and self-respecting submissive do such a thing? Wouldn’t it be better for them to set that money on fire? At least then it would burn prettily.
And yet financial domination is real, and for those of us in tune with its pleasures, it is a wonderful way to express our dominant tendencies.
Let’s start with the anonymity. Sure, the Submissive we recieve money from may not be “real,” per se… but so what? This is a fantasy, and as long as the person is participating actively in the fantasy, who cares? It’s not like this is the prelude to some Nicholas Sparks romance where the two of you wind up hitched.
On the contrary, the beauty of anonymity is that the relationship is based SOLELY on transactions like this. The financial dominant, in other words, is the rock on which the dynamic is built. It is a pure form of domination — as pure as pure gets.
Second, it’s something within the reach of almost anyone. Some submissives — maybe even most! — live double lives. There are subs who have families, or serious girlfriends, or parents in whose basements they live — people, in short, who might notice if they came home one day wearing a metal collar with whip welts on their back. But this? Anyone can participate. All it takes is cash, and everyone has SOME cash.
Third, the submissive doesn’t deserve the money. It’s true. Sub men are pathetic losers who will waste it on beer or porn or ironic t-shirts or rock concerts or ammo or, I don’t know, sports car payments. Screw that. The funds should go to the domme, because she will spend that money better than you can.
Finally, and most importantly, financial domination is intensely humiliating. Because by giving your dominant money, you are essentially laboring for their benefit. You are being exploited. You are a SLAVE, much more so than if you lick boots or eat your own cum or whatever. Findom is about control, but most of all, it’s about financial control. That makes it as authentic as any form of domination/slavery can be.
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