It's been a while

It has been a while since I have written a blog. Not that it is super important that I do at all at this point because of course vanilla life does take priority. Let's just say it has been a wicked whiplash of a roller coaster so far this year. Although there have been up sides to every down side and twists and turns in life I am still here and am not going anywhere.

All these things happening recently after my move and what not have helped me to better determine which path I desire most. Findom is something I enjoy not just the money aspect, but the strong femdom base of the interaction with my subs. There is no better way to define the type of boy I typically like to interact with than ambitious. Why? There's no real way for someone to snag my interest without effort. Yes, I have spoke with many boys here and for the most part the majority are respectful.

What does effort include? Well that is a broad subject! It could be cash, gifts, materials; it could be tasks, research, tireless efforts to reach above others; it could just be ensuring to remember what it is that initially stuck them and the path they do not wish to walk alone, but mostly it just means that they show a glimmer of hope. A desire to be used-not for selfish reasons- but to feel more deeply connected.

I don't need nor want all of their problems. I don't care to know any detail they wish not to share of their vanilla life. The thing matters the most is that they strive from within to still be a proactive submissive, not a slave, in the sense that they readily give what they can purely out of servitude and follow direction.

There have been many who claim to have this ability and fail to follow instruction. It is not the matter of sending tribute, as tribute is an offering of admiration and is rarely a demand. More so, it is failure to show respect and correct mistakes when given ample time and ability with all of the needed materials to complete it. Devotion to a Domme is not always easy boys, but that doesn't mean you should ever cease to try.

I'll be around much more, though I was never really gone. Just a bit of my mind have a lovely night Ladies and lesser beings.