No more Mistress Nice Lottie

I like to think of myself as fair. My needs are simple - I don't want anything from you except your money. Tribute, treat, worship, and spoil me, and I will reward you with gifts. It might be a personal photo of me. It might be the password to my Zenfolio site, where you can then purchase my photos. It might be a task or a little game. It might simply be a few moment of my time. It might be a lovely edging session, like it was with X the other night.

I will admit that in my naivety, I took this sub on before demanding a tribute. (Hey, I'm new to findomme. Give me a break.) This was my first mistake. But everyone makes them. I'll give him a chance. We chatted before hand - I like to get to know prospective subs, make sure that it's going to work for both of us. He said he was new to kink, 35, single, and lived in the UK. Turns out two of those things were true, one was most definitely false. His age? No. He is 35. His location? Nope. UK. Just down the road from me in fact, handy if online turned to real life sessions. Nope. It was his relationship status. I also suspect he wasn't as new to kink as he claimed.

He was edging to my photos, he was so close it was beautiful. I had a task. All my subs are expected to write "I Worship Mistress Lottie" on a body part, take a photo and publish it, or at least send it to me for my own private collection. His response? "Oh, I can't do that. My wife might find out." I'm sorry. Idiotsayswhatnow?

It shocked me. Like I said, I'm fairly new to this myself. But didn't I say we all make mistakes? Maybe his wife is Domme and her kink is him being dominated by other women. Maybe his wife is also into findomme. Who knows. He was still mid-edge session when he told me. What do I do? He said he wanted to cum. He wanted to cum to my photos so bad. No. You have a wife. You don't get to wank to my photos. Go bang your wife.

I told him I needed some vanilla time. I contacted him today. Look, this isn't working out. You haven't tributed anyway, and then you say you're married... "I haven't decided if I want to tribute to you yet. It's too early." Well that makes it easy. Buh-bye loser.

I get accused of being nice. Well no more. You want my attention? Pay for it. I don't mind a bit of chit-chat, but the moment it's decided that you are going to be my sub, I own you. Nobody else. You tribute, you worship, you obey.

Liars need not apply.