How Can I Use Findoms.com More Actively?

I really want to update a lot of stuff... thankfully can, now after being very ill, other stuff that kept me offline and away from working and I know that this site... Is one of the best and has sooooo many features!!!! .... YET, PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ....i AM CHANNELLiNG ALL YOU AMAZiNG LADiES AND BOYS AND GiRLS WHO KEEP THiS SiTE GOiNG... FOR ALL THE REASONS WE ARE HERE!!! ... I want to start using Findoms.com more actively... I see some who never come in chat but are doing things so please guide, tips, tricks, likes for you, etc... For example... How do you use this site? ... What do you do on site other than sit in the chatroom? ... If you do not ever sit in the chat = What "functions" / "spots" / "things" do you like to do, try to do, go through, etc, whatever, lol... Just looking for tips from all of the Gorgeous Ladies and our little boys and girls!!!!!!! ... HELP ME USE THIS SITE AS IT SHOULD BE!!!!!!!