Findomming,life,the uninverse and everything

I am now almost 58 and have been on the Findom scene for around 15 years and when I first started I pretty much fell for every trick in the book-the "subs"who "promise"a tribute or gift from My amazon wish-list but only after I have "proved"Myself on webcam and even though it went very much against My grain as a Domme to do ANYTHING a sub demanded of Me-I went along with it at first because I thought that's how it went.THEN,after a few of those "sessions"during which I would be subjected to what can only be described as pathetic little wanking performances on the other end of the camera,I decided that I WASN'T here for that kind of nonsense and not even the biggest tribute on earth was worth that kind of shit thank you very much!

SO,time to become true to Myself thought I and even if I never see another tribute ever again at least I would feel like the truly Dominant woman I actually am,the one who calls the shots and has the sub doing what I want,how I want it and no,no amount of money will make Me compromise Myself in ways that make Me feel uncomfortable or like I'm some kind of prostitute.

Well,that sure made things a hell of a lot simpler let Me tell you and as soon as any so called sub approached Me telling Me they wanted this that or the other before they would tribute I would instantly dismiss them and saved Myself a lot of wasted time in the process!

As I've said before I will never comment negatively or critisise any other Domme and some do offer sexual content and some don't and that's their prerogative.We all have our own style we are all strong females who have attitude and like to be in control and ladies I'm really quite into the sisterhood and wish to offer admiration and encouragement to other women rather than get into any competitive or bitchy vibe.

I did eventually find a couple of wonderful subs who have served Me very well over the years but yes,it took time to finally attract those who truly suited Me and My particular style and the majority of those who approached Me were liars and game-players and just as I was ready to give up entirely I found a truly devoted slave-who I think served Me in a past life when I was a Queen and has searched for Me ever since.He didn't even believe in reincarnation until he suddenly started to have memories of that lifetime and what we had been to each other.

He managed to restore My faith that there were and are some genuinely submissive males out there but in My opinion they are few and far between.

In the summer I was going through quite a serious depression and I could sense him drifting away as I guess I wasn't a whole lot of fun during that period and I then found him on here pretending to be 35 years younger than he is and throwing himself and his gifts and tributes at another Domme.

I usually just let them go if they do that to Me but because of the past life connection I wanted him back,I missed him and cared for him and I was absolutely bloody FURIOUS to say the least.He got to see the full force of My Greek temper and came back to My feet where he belonged very ashamed of himself(quite rightly so too)and has been a fantastic slave to Me ever since but as he is unwell at the moment and unable to work I would like to find another slave or two so that he can relax a bit and I can take the pressure off him financially as he does like to try and provide Me with everything Me and My animals need,bless him.

I think that sometimes the sub/Domme relationship can really be the most sweet and beautiful thing and of course not everyone will understand but it doesn't have to be sordid,sexual or only about money.There are many levels and depths to this kind of connection and I guess that most of us on here already know that.

There is so much more to being a Findom than just demanding money and gifts and really we shouldn't even have to ask-you want to serve a Findom then of course tributes are the way to get to our hearts and for Me personally it's the spirit in which those tributes are made that matters most of all.

It can't be forced-if a sub truly wants to worship you as desired then he will do so happily,willingly and as often as possible!I love waking up and finding something in My account,knowing My sub worships Me even as I sleep and I get so much pleasure out of that as I do from any gifts that arrive.

I feel that this is the age of the Goddess and of female power returning in it's full power and glory and I am happy and proud to be a part of it all.I love to see other women doing well and having a commanding presence-not just in the Findom world but generally speaking.

I really hope that both Dommes and subs will find the kind of person that suits THEM and enjoy playing this crazy but fun Findom game in their own ways and styles.

Be good to one another and CHERISH your Dommes with every ounce of your being-because whatever the vanilla world might make of us it really can be the most beautiful thing!