I do things MY WAY!

I'm an older Findom-something I am neither proud nor ashamed of-it just is what it is and I like My subs to be VERY submissive,respectful and to WANT to serve Me exactly as I am.I don't chase anyone around,I like to be approached by the sub if he is genuinely drawn to My no nonsense,no games approach.I don't turn any tricks for tributes because that starts to resemble prostitution to Me and back in the old days when I first started to do the Findom thing it really never was about sex.Nowadays all kinds of stuff comes under the banner of Findom and I never critise other Dommes because we are after all all unique individuals and should do things in our own style.SO WHAT if some of the younger Dommes want to play the spoilt,bratty princess role-I think most of us have a bit of a diva in us and if that's how they want to be and it appeals to certain subs then more power to them,in My opinion!

For Me personally My ideal kind of subs are those who do EXACTLY as they are told,no arguments,no demands and certainly if you are seeking some kind of wanking accessory then look elsewhere-I prefer celibacy and chastity and am quite a spiritual lady so I expect self control and decorum from you.

Another thing I never pretend about is that I don't want,like or even sometimes NEED your tributes because I really do as I run a cat and ferret shelter here and well,those little furry critters cost quite a lot to care for and they mean the absolute world to Me so I do whatever it takes to ensure their happiness and well-being.

I work hard,I'm an independent lady and yes I also feel I fully deserve to be spoilt and pampered and adored by devoted slaves too!I love My treats and gifts and I get a lot of pleasure from receiving them-absolutely I do!

I'm a very real person and I wouldn't say My life is exactly glamorous but I am also a very genuine and strict Domme-I am not here to fulfill your fantasies-you are there to fulfill MINE and that needs to be clear from the start.I don't make promises I can't or won't keep and expect you to be the same on that score.

I won't lie to you or pretend ever to be anything I'm not-life is full of ups and downs and I expect you to stand by your Goddess through thick and thin and if you don't have that kind of loyalty then I'm not interested in you.

Serving an older Domme like myself has it's own rewards for sure-I have wisdom and experience and a certain depth and self-acceptance and awareness that comes with age.I will be your friend as well as your Domme and take time to get to know you and train you accordingly.

I don't compete with anyone because we are all different and there's certainly no point trying to compete with the younger ladies physically-My bones are getting a bit creaky now guys and I can't turn on some of those poses or do the sexy thing the way they can and well,I don't even wish to any more quite frankly!

Each to their own has always been My attitude and maybe there are some subs out there who DO like what an older Domme has to offer-I'm more interested in quality than quantity these days and deeply value My subs-as long as they behave themselves and do as they are told of course!

I have a quiet knowledge of My superiority and don't need to make a big deal about it really!