Findomming Is Not A Get Rich Scheme

There is an influx of insta-dommes who believe with the snap of their fingers some stupid pathetic man is going to send them his entire pay check. On the surface this is how the fetish appears, but there is so much more to it. I can understand why young ladies hurting for money or desiring the finer things in life would think it's that simple. The recent documentaries popping up online portray it as some kind of get rich quick scheme. What many wide eye jezebels fail to recognize is the experience most findoms have in the sex-industry. Prior to setting up shop many findoms worked as pso's, glamour/webcam models, dominatrix, escorts, and most still do. Many successful women in this field treat it more as a lifestyle than a job. It is a career, a business, not a nine to five where you just tell men to give you money until it's time to clock-out. If this was the case every woman with half a brain would be doing it.

I myself am the first to admit that I am quite new to the fetish, however, I took my time to research and learn some of the psychology behind the fetish prior to setting up profiles. I also had experience working as a pso and dabbled in a few other forms of sex work through out the years. So, I knew going in nothing is ever really free and if it seems too good to be true it probably is. I had some beginners luck for about the first month and then there was nothing. What I failed to realize is that you have to stay interesting and bring something different to the table. And, as much as we call these losers idiots they can tell when you are inexperienced or trying too hard. At this point I am starting to find my own style in the fetish and am doing and saying the things that resonate with me, not what I think I should be saying.

Legalities and your rights are another issue insta-dommes overlook. They create a twitter with a fake name and post their personal email as if no one can see that it doesn't match. And, on top of that they all post their paypal (smh) with no realization they are breaking rules and can be shut down. Not to mention they are indirectly giving up their own privacy and are jeopardizing their safety.

They just end up pissing off people who live the lifestyle and waste their own time. So, if you are new read, research, think about why you are getting into this particular fetish. The point of the story is before you leap you should look because you might just be stepping off a cliff.

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