To wear or not to wear...

that's the question. Today I was thinking to myself how much emphasis is put on fetish clothing. Then I started wondering what really is important. The image you want to get across or your comfort. Comfort has always been key with me although there are many things I do like within fetish attire. This just raised some curiosity as to what other Dommes like to wear as per their comfort. I know we are all different, but isn't that the beauty of it all?

Sexy and fun! Fetish wear has become what so many think of in Femdom. Isn’t it? Even, if not in some particular cases, I do think it is expressive of the person. Is it stylish? Is it that the feel puts you in some certain head space?


Myself, I don’t dress up as often. Does that mean that I am against it? No, actually I have quite a variety of things I love. Boots being at the top of that list for sure! Then again I suppose I would much rather wear boots and leather than PVC. Often even then I would still opt for a dress or something more casual. It could also be motorcycle boots and jeans with a tank top or t-shirt for the day. After all it isn’t the material that makes the Domme. It is how She feels wearing it.


I am sure there has been a time or two one could recall choosing comfort over perception. My question though is what is your favorite comfort attire? Is it really fetish clothing or do you prefer a cocktail dress or pajamas? Whatever it may be there is no wrong answer!