When is a time waster really a time waster?

Okay so I have had to do a lot of thinking whether I would type this out on my blog or not. So, with every other post in my twitter feed about time wasters (TW from now on) I deiced it was best to write this out. first off I guess the question is what is a TW? Well it would depend on who you ask but for me it’s when I give my time to a sub that is a potential and he pretends to or doesn’t pay. Now here in itself is the issue I have with that. I like to get to know any sub that maybe in my service. I also think that the only person that can waste one’s time is well yourself.

I waste my time with nonpaying subs because I give my time by messaging back, even if it’s a tribute now loser message, that’s time I gave them. Now how can I not waste time on chatting and pics and video with a sub who don’t pay is the question I’m sure your all asking. Well I don’t know one way to not lose time except only talk to subs who tribute first if that is what you wish to do. For me I don’t send photos or videos or give any kink chat or what I will do to them, etc.

I ask these three basic questions before I talk tributes. What are your limits both soft and hard? What kinks are you into? (I also let them know just because they tell me doesn’t mean they will get them. After all it’s about me not them). What do you have monthly to give to findom? That’s it that conversation last about 30-60 min. That is all the time they get this give me an idea if they are going to be a good fit to move forward with or not. Plus, it gives the sub the trust he needs in knowing you’re the real deal. Now does this mean to give him all your contact info? Absolutely not you chat in the message system he contacts you on.

If he wishes to take the conversation somewhere else, he can pay for the ids to those sites. After the initial talk is done I ask them if they wish to continue their new life path. If they do I demand my first tribute. If they don’t pay I block and move to the next sub. I don’t have any more time for that sub. I don’t tell them there is an unblocking fee, it goes without saying that if they didn’t tribute in the first place they won’t pay the unblocking fee. That’s when you began to waste your time and energy. Just demand your tribute once with a time frame then when that time is up if they did not pay it then block and move on. If they chose not to pay out them on timewaster sites so other sisters know to stay away.

Now for the part that will piss off 90% of you. If you contact a sub first and he does not pay you a tribute because you messaged him to give you his wallet now. Does not I repeat DOES NOT make him a TW. Just because he didn’t tribute you doesn’t mean he didn’t or doesn’t tribute others. You also should know the difference in a finsub/slave and a kink sub/slave. Now a finsub/slave pays his Mistress/Goddess/Princess/Domina (this will just say Mistress next time) for the sheer joy of giving to her pleasure with nothing expected in return. 98% of the subs out there are not this. Is there anything wrong with a kink sub/slave? No not at all it just means you’re going to have to put in work to get your money from them. finsubs pay upfront and know the deal and kink subs want an experience. Know what you are willing to do for your money. This is important to this post because TW are usually kink boys who get off on messing with a Domme don’t let them get under your skin.

They will always be a part of the scene. Just chat to get to know them if they push for kink right away demand tribute if they don’t pay block and move on. Do not give them what they want more time. Then it becomes you that wastes time. Kink boys this in no way gives you free reign to contact me to bug move along I can smell a TW from a mile away and you will get nothing from me. Genuine finsubs/slaves and kink subs/slaves you may contact me to see if you can be of service to me.