The Most Important Questions

When a sub messages me I can usually tell right away what I'm dealing with. Key word USUALLY... I can tell if you read my info which is so important. It tells you EVERYTHING you need to know prior to approaching me. I do love the timid ones who come tip toeing in very shy in their intro message. I find it lovely :)

I've had many messages from subs over the last week and I want to be able to reference this blog in the future to new boys wanting to get to know me better. After we've messaged a bit and I decide I wouldn't mind chatting with you more or you ask me to take you under consideration for further use I will ALWAYS ask these questions:

1) When was your last D/s relationship?
2) Are you speaking with any other Dommes privately at this time?
3) Have you made any promises of tributes of any kind to any Dommes that are not yet fulfilled?
4) Are you under consideration or speaking of ownership with any other Domme at this time?

Many times the conversation stops after I ask these questions. A sudden silence after days of chatter. That leads me to believe you really didn't read my info tab. I don't cross other Dommes. In my opinion it's counterproductive to this lifestyle. If you've been chatting with another Domme and its been light and friendly I will still have you message that Domme to tell her you wish to get to know me better. I usually contact the Domme as well. If you have debt that you haven't squared away why the hell would I want to deal with you?

Every Domme style is so very different. The way in which I run my flock may not be for you and that's fine. If you're not comfortable answering any of those questions then simply do not approach me. I understand their are circumstances that are beyond a subs control. Such as Dommes who fall off the face of the interwebs so things were never properly called off. Honesty is always so important as it is the base of any fetish or vanilla relationship.