Domming My Former "Domme"

I came into this lifestyle as a submissive. I enjoyed the mentorship of the "sub" role, but I quickly realized that it wasn't an honest position for me. I found myself regularly topping from the bottom so to speak. I felt that I could see through each man that approached me claiming to be a Dom. Every man, without fail, would look for my approval and it would turn into him catering to me.

The most recent of these is perhaps the strongest example. I allowed him to call himself the dominant, because I could clearly see that his masculinity couldn't handle the reality that I was in charge. He was my significant other and his only form of sexual contact with me was pleasing me orally or manually. He enjoyed this thoroughly and begged for me to allow him to do it again. Of course this was only actually done when I prompted and not when he begged. He took my grocery list to the store and delivered what he bought to my front step. He also found a lot of pleasure in taking me shopping taking me to restaurants that I wanted to try. Each date was planned by me and paid for by him.

He demonstrated all of the signs of a finsub while wearing the "Dom" title. Here recently, I had a conversation with him about switching roles (lol as if anything other than the title would be different). He accepted and I'm excited to get him to embrace his true nature.