Miss Kristys BDSM 101 Blog - Part 1 Sadistic CBT

Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving application of pain or constriction to the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electro stimulation or even kicking.[1] The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through erotic humiliation, or knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic dominant. Many of these practices carry significant health risks.

This blog is my opinion and suggestions on CBT. I do not suggest doing any of these things without proper training and practice. Any information found here is just my ideas, suggestions and things I have done in my 9 years as a Lifestyle and Professional Dominatrix.

AS ALWAYS PLEASE PRACTICE SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL PLAY !!!

Any questions regarding any of this blog can be asked in comments or directed to me personally. There are many experienced Dommes on this site who can give help or answers. ( That is my Disclosure so I don’t get in trouble)

In this blog I will be discussing some fun sadistic ways to do CBT with ordinary items if you are on a budget and can’t afford big items. In some way or another men love CBT. Weather its light or hard there isn’t a man alive who does like to have his balls touched. It’s just a matter of how far you can go to get them to a safe word or to make them want more because it feels too good to stop.
One of my favorite item to use for CBT is Big File Rubber Bands. Unlike regular rubber bands, obviously they are bigger. I’ve wrapped one of these around a penis and balls a good 4 or five times. You can also use them to make welts on the scrotum by pulling back really hard and letting go. Another item you can add to the rubber bands are the ever popular clothes pins. Clip them to the ball sack and penis around the rubberbands. I like to rip them off one by one as it causes a more painful stimulation. Especially if there is hair involved.
If you are really sick and twisted, such as myself, go and get a steak knife. Make sure it is cleaned and sanitized. Rubbing alcohol works well for these situations. Take the tip of the steak knife and gently poke at the ball sack. You can also poke the penis and the tip of the penis but make sure you practice safely with other items before using knives, as they can cause serious damage if not used correctly. (This was a Safety Disclosure for those that didn’t get it) I like to use daggers, but not everyone has access to them so a steak knife works just as well.
If you have a hitachi or a vibrator, place it right under the ball sack and press upwards towards the base of the penis and hold it there. This will drive your victim crazy. Want to make it more fun? Hold the knife right at the ball sack and tell them if they squirm too much they will get a sharp surprise. Do this for about 10 minutes and I guarantee he will be asking to release or beg you to stop.

Now I like my boys shaved and clean for me. But every now and then I get one who well doesn’t understand clean shaven or man scaping. If you don’t own hand cuffs or wrist and ankle cuffs you can use a scarf, ties, even rope or shoe laces. Anything that can be tied. Ties their hands together and their ankles to the ends of the bed or the legs of the bed. Make sure they are spread eagle. Next, blindfold them or use a hood if you have on. There is nothing like a little sensory play while you are torturing your sub. Whisper sweet sadistic nothings into their ears. Like they will be punished for not man scaping to your specifications. Some of my favorite manscaping tools are a tweezer, Nair, wax that you can get from and beauty store or even Walmart, scissors and yes a razor blade. Now If you have never used a straight blade to shave I don’t suggest using one until you can practice on a dummy (and no not a live dummy lol).
I like to start out easy and slow with a pair of scissors and start to clip their hairs, building my way up to some nair, then waxing. But my favorite of all times is using a tweezer to pull out the hairs one by one. Or if you really want to hear muffled screams ( yes gag them) use your fingers, grab a bunch of hairs and pull them out. Yes, I know sounds evil but it is so much fun. That will be the last time they don’t manscape before a session trust me.

Now, comes the ultimate CBT. Ball busting. So many me have emailed me begging to have me bust their balls saying they can handle it. I always like a challenge. I came across a pair of combat boots that have spikes on the tips of the toes. I call these my ultimate ball busting boots. I wear them at 90% of ball busting sessions. Just the looks alone I get when I walk in with them on is enough for a sub to change his mind. I will get back to that in a moment, but first, if you have never done ball busting, there are many ways you can start. Using your fist is a great first way to get started. Just pretend you are punching a punching bag, or the face of your ex, or a ball. Its not as effective as using your foot but it still causes some pain. Want to take it up a notch? Hold the penis up with one hand and punch with the other. Another way is to hold the ball sack down as far as you can with one hand and punch with another. For those that don’t have a basic riding crop? Grab your favorite brush, or wooden spoon and use that to smack them in the balls or cock. Grab a stick off a tree and use that as a cane. Use a belt instead of a whip. Any of these items at great for some serious CBT and ball busting. Now comes the fun part. Using your foot as the kicker. I always say kickers from football teams would make the best ball busters. Picture yourself as a kicker and you will surely bring any man don to his knees wanting to vomit. Make sure you have a good stance. One foot behind the other a good shoulders length apart. I like to do soft kicks before I bring on the big guns. This way they don’t see it coming. Once they are comfortable, well comfortable – ish, with the small kicks, That’s when you surprise them with one big swift kick to the balls. This is where having spikes on shoes makes it so much more enjoyable. Give them just enough time to fall to their knees and scream then make them stand up again and ask for more. Then tell them you thought they could handle it not to be a pussy and kick them again.

I know this is a big blog, but a lot of the ladies in here who know me have told me I need to write a book on things I’ve seen, done, traveled etc. So I will be sharing a lot more stories on here with everyone. Here is a list of items you can find in the dollar store that you can use for CBT:

50 pack of clothespins
Small bungee cords
Large File Rubber Bands
Hair Brush
Small Rubber Bands
Potato Chip Bag Clips
Nylon Rope
Shoe Laces
Thumb Tacks (for experienced players only)
Steak Knife
Hair Remover – aka Nair
Razors for shaving hair
Socks- for gagging
Scarves for tying up or blindfolding
Candles in a jar (I call them the jesus candles) they make the best wax ( but please do not use unless you have had training)

I hope you all enjoyed this blog. I will be writing more in the series. Eventually I will be asking for suggestions on what to write about. But until then, thank you and all comments are welcome.