My journey that lead me here

I'm new to the site but ive been dabbling in this scene and others for a few years. Nothing major due to having major back surgery and recovering but I feel like I finally found my home here.I was a sugar baby when I first started out years ago, I know its not domme work but that's why it was NOT what I wanted. I was so controlling and dominating and so were they, it was not what I was expecting at all. I am way too dominating in general to be told what to do by some loser guy whos paying for attention (I am an aries after all, we make the best dommes). They don't have any fetishes, they are just assholes who want to control women with money (besides a selected few who know their place). Well they had the wrong woman! I love domination but refuse to not get anything from these men. FinDom is my perfect fit! The subs know the deal right off the bat and thats what i need, no more confusion! I'm glad to be a part of this site. I am looking for a paypig to spoil me obviously. I'm looking for a sub to be dedicated to me and not all over the place. I deserve loyalty from my subs. I demand it. And I want to add I love the dynamic between the women on here, we are all queens and should be supportive of each other and so far that's exactly what I have seen! I love it!