Don't be entitled with Me it back fires.

Nothing annoys Me more then dealing with individuals who seem to have an entitlement issue a mile wide. I do NOT owe you or anyone anything for that matter. Especially if I don't even know you, nor have any type of relationship with you. Oh and yes that goes for both genders and sides of the fence here.

It's not just the attitude but the presentation of it. Often times bordering on plain rude. I am not sure at which point in the last 10 years or so it has become perfectly normal for a total stranger to email or DM you and not request politely the attention of a Lady or fellow Lady, but to plain out in demand it as if it is their due. Whenever that happened so let me remind you to "Check yourself before you wreck yourself" with Me.

I get emails from new women who see Me in chatroom with one sentence demands to teach them what I know. Not a please, no thank you, no nothing. Guess what, you want Me to teach you something, go buy My books and Magazines. That is exactly why I stopped mentoring because of that type of attitude.

As women you can play your self-serving entitlement persona with the boys all you want. Day, Afternoon, Night and in between. Good luck to you. I wish you well. However DO NOT speak to a fellow Lady like that, do NOT think that will fly. Do NOT think that it is amusing, cute, powerful or anything else like that. I have never played hierarchy games with fellow Ladies but if this continues I will begin to do so. Respect is something you receive if you give it. I see it lacking frequently. As I said. "Check yourself before you wreck yourself with Me"

As to the boys. Now most will not email Me here for some reason, I do get those into My personal mailboxes which is perfectly fine. Newsflash so and I have made it clear before. If you are unable to speak in a full English sentence, give Me a proper introduction of yourself and send Me nothing but a laundry list of what your dick wants topics, I will ignore you in a hurry. Do you boys even READ profiles any more? Do I need to send the majority of you back to school so you can learn how to read?

You know I am fully aware and ok with some of the evolution of this fetish and just things in general, but this lack of actual manners and self-diluted entitlement BS is going out of hand. It needs to be checked in a hurry on all sides.

Sometimes I am really wondering if the majority of people who are not actually into domination but only into it for a quick thrill or to make some quick cash, get even the basics of what this is all about. If you don't, both sides, go educate yourself a little. Most of who truly enjoy what we do and who have been doing this for a long time, are getting a wee bit tired of the attitudes.

I did NOT name names and this is NOT about calling out a person, but a behavioral issue that needs stopped fast. If you feel attacked then you are probably part of that problem and have that behavioral issue. In that case go and see how you can do better. Sometimes it takes a slap on the wrist or a kick in the pants by someone else to realize just how much you are screwing up. I hope this post did that.

A somewhat annoyed Goddess Bella Donna