Does the thought always count?

Does it?

Most common sense or in the vanilla word yeah it could. However boys you should remember one thing. Whether you're a community chum or owned. It is one thing to think above and beyond trying to do something nice. Which is good, you should strive for the best. Anything possible to please and make happy. However this can lead to trouble.

Doing a nice gesture to show your Domme you've been thinking of her is good. Don't get me wrong. But what are we to do with something we don't like nor want? For instance many know a story of years ago where a chump that serves me when he is in town bought me a coach bag as a surprise. Lots would think I was happy with that. ERRR, wrong. I don't like coach. He ended up having to go return it, give me the money. And since we were at the stores shop for whatever I wanted. He learned a very valuable and steep lesson that day. Today a local boy dropped off an ulta makeup palette of which a great portion of the colors don't interest me highly. Luckily for him he had also placed a $100 bill inside. That unfortunately did not save him much.

It isn't about the money or how much you can spoil your Domme. It's the gesture behind it. You do so because its a way to show admiration and appreciation for her. So why buy her something she has no use, desire for. That's like trying to say you dont appreciate her as much as you say you do. Use your mind. If you wish to get her something physical instead of just money. Get her something you know she wants. We have wishlists and state what we want for a reason.