W/we are all humans...

When given the opportunity to start a relationship, O/our natural instinct, as human beings, is to abase the other party, making them feel insignificant & dependent. They DEPEND on You, because they are LESS than You. I’m not just speaking of D/s relationships, this rings true in ALL relationships. Friendships, vanilla relationships, and D/s relationships all have the same basis. The stronger of the couple always tries to make the opposing party feel as if they NEED them. For whatever reason, they are lacking something in their lives that the stronger can provide. So, by default, they MUST be with them. Very rarely will a relationship form based on bonds & similarities. When that happens, it’s generally FOR LIFE.
My significant other and I are like this. We do not compete, we do not try and sustain one another. We encourage and uplift one another, & accept everything about the other. W/we are all trying to fill a void in O/our lives, unfortunately, most stick with the person they feel they NEED & not with someone that makes them feel wanted. Most of My D/s relationships are like this as well. I require communication, as well as a daily update on how they are doing. I want to know how My subs lives are, if they are ill, if they need to take a break serving financially….All of these things just accent the fact that subs are humans too.
I’m not discounting the fact that Dommes are human beings as well. More than ever I am seeing subs that aren’t realizing this. They take for granted that their Domme has a vanilla life outside of this “fantasy” that’s been created. They expect their Domme to be at their beck & call, in a sense, and when that doesn’t happen most run away. They run into the arms of someone they feel they “NEED”, as said before. I know some think that the attention they are given isn’t sufficient, however, look at OUR viewpoint. As a Domme, I have found that the times I had available and free were just spent canoodling online…..However, when My life takes the forefront, and I’m busy traveling, or with My college classes, or GOD FORBID My family, that’s when the “subs” want the attention.
My trusted and tried boys, like the ones’ I had been visiting the last 3 weeks, know this about Me. They understand that I won’t just stop what I’m doing to session, nor will I give up on communicating with My subs. They know that I will get back to them in a timely manner, and if I don’t, obviously I don’t want to talk to them. For lack of a better term, FUCK IT! When Y/you feel as if Y/your D/s partner is lacking in communicating, not giving Y/you what Y/you think is NEEDED, or simply being a douche….remember, W/we are ALL humans.