chastity

men are essential very sexual beings and very visual.
I tend to think men tend to lose focus on how they should serve or please when they are entirely tied up in what their dick thinks and wants.
dick sees pretty lady
dick gets a little boner seeing pretty lady
dick wanst to squirt because pretty lady got dick excited
dick squirts
dick falls over and goes to sleep
dicks attention wanders some where else
dick got gratified but what exactly did the pretty lady get besides some sticky residue stuck to her internet pic?
ways to change dicks thinking.
forced masturbation- I tend to set up daily forced masturbation tasks, a set amount of strokes a day with in different time periods of the day and night( and no I dont care if your at work when the time is scheduled you excuse dick and yourself and go to the bitches room to rub one out in the stall).there is 7 days to this and fines are included if one cums before strokes are finished and thats normally a buck a stroke that they have left over.What does this exactly teach them besides making them get it out of their system, well two things, not to take for granted when they are allowed to stroke in the future and that what dick really wants isnt really important to the person who controls it, it also teaches them, wanking is just a momentary state of weakness that can be controlled.I like to force feed it out of their system.
chastity- now chastity for the first cple of weeks is pretty damn hard to a chronic masturbatory its even hard to endure for a part time wanker, men are always touching their goods, adjusting,groping or just plain holding it too pee,or jerking off to internet porn,their friends gfs or next door neighbor.Point being a mans hands is normally on his dick and his mind is normally on something to get dick off. so he loses focus on what is important.
subs need constant guidance,control and focus, online control is of course a little bit harder, not when your a key holder or when you implement chastity, release can be used as a reward and in some instances when they have been in chastity for a while and they mess about it can be used as a punishment( ruining a achievement).
I believe a sub can be of better use and can serve better when dick is put away, the goal of any submissive should be to serve 110 percent, to keep a smile always on his Owners face or un owner. to strive to keep her giddy,happy and surpassing contentment.This is a hard to thing to do when a subs main motivation is what does dick get out of submitting?
Ive said this a few times, theres plenty one can get out of it, the smile of a Lady,being told how well they have done.encouragement,praise, with online its more mental then anything since hands on is well impossible, so words even gay ass emotes can make a sub feel better about the way he serves and performs and this all comes down to what hes focusing on.
A lot of people know Im fairly hardcore when it comes to chastity, I dont allow masturbation, I dont allow sex , arrispetcucky pays Me to have sex with his gf, and now he doesnt even want too due to the embarrassment of lasting 20 seconds( yea last time I allowed sex we timed it)needless to say he begs Me to not let him have sex with his gf.I was even being nice and letting him have sex as a reward for good service, but again he doesnt even want to have it, as he says I ruined his sex life and hes 100 percent correct about that because he needed to focus On Me and not other things .That focus has let him come up with unique ways to spoil Me, vids and torture panties*thats a whole another blog lol*
Do I do this with every one? No I dont because every sub is different, I train all My boys differently in aspects because some have issues in some areas that others dont, do I keep all My boys in chastity , no because some of them dont need it due to the fact they are pretty much in eunuch status any way.
For a cple years I had thought control a mans dick you control the man.I beg to differ now, control the mind the body will follow blindly. Because men tend to be easily excitable it doesnt take a whole hell of a lot to get them excited, but once that excitement is over, they are pretty much done,lights out,night night, till the next time dick gets excited. Take over the mind then you have the body, the emotional.the adoration, the praise and the no resistance .
boys are always asking Me how many boys do I own, I tell them and they ask for how long and again I tell them, their reply is you must know what your doing if you have so many boys and non owned boys with You for so long, its because I tend to take a different approach then most, I take the mental road first ,I get inside their head and bend their will My way.I use to take tons of sexy pics, corsets,panty hose,fetish gear,panties etc etc and I found Myself wandering why people were serving, the whole I want to serve you cause your hot kind of gets old, Im more then a pretty face and a great body, Im smart,crafty and creative and I want to be worshiped for My entire being and not just a small smidgen, nor do I want to be just jerk off material which is probably another reason why I take the mental road with submissives now a days more then just putting up sexy pics and hoping they lure some one in, I want them lured in for the right reasons.