How Do You Identify Yourself?

Are you a loser? Well first we must ask ourselves, what is a loser? In My opinion it’s a boy who never takes his shot. he never advances in his career (should he even have one), never gets the girl, and should he ever, without fail he will fumble it.

he learns that in regards to Women he'll never be able to please one. he's not bold enough, he's not strong enough and certainly can't do anything worth a damn sexually. he is an inferior reject. he even knows this hard truth, there's no escaping it. So what does he do? he starts lurking around communities occupied by the Superior Women. They're bold, assertive, no-nonsense, beautiful, intelligent, and devious. he wishes he could approach at least one of them, dreaming of serving her financially, it's all he feels he has to offer . . . But, he doesn’t take his shot. he doesn’t serve the Superior Women. Not ever. he sits around, alone, getting nothing done. A failure whose purpose and life goes unfulfilled.

And that is a loser.

See, serving a Domme, or even many Dommes as a community slut, will change a boy's life for the better (or it at least should, given you do your research and connect with the right people). The two of you get to live out your twisted desires together, each finding this part of yourself fulfilled in such regard. Then one day when you realize there's this one Domme who has become your whole world (if you ever settle on one), you begin focusing on doing anything and everything you can within your power to see to it that her life is as easy as possible. Whether this be coordinating plans and travels for her, finding a product she's on the hunt for, running errands, and covering every financial aspect that you're capable of. And what does the boy get? Her time, Her attention, Her praise, the satisfaction of contributing to Her overall happiness. Accomplishments worth the world to the One who is yours. There lies your purpose. It's a beautiful relationship. But let's not get ahead of ourselves . . .

So I ask again, are you a loser?

What steps will you take to change that?

you may not find the Domme of your dreams tomorrow, but good luck finding her at all if you never put yourself out there.