Payment Methods in the Findom world

I've been in this world since around May 2000. Back then most of the time the only way that this worked was off-line. Nowadays, there are so many different ways to do this and I'm doing this from Europe. So some of my pay methods will be a different way than America. 
 

PayPal is one of the most popular but there are quite a few downsides for a dominant. One the fees are extremely high and it's easy for a submissive to charge back with this. And it's also easy for a dominant to scam somebody out of money with this one so this is not my first choice, but it is an option. I just suggest if you're doing this professionally that you don't use it. I also have a merchant account with this particular pay method which will share both my address and the physical address of the person sending and I know a lot of people don't know this so that you need to be aware of it.

Cash app is something I've heard quite often. I have never used this one due to the fact that in Europe, it's not an option. So I don't have much experience with this one.
 

Wishtender is the main one that I use for many reasons. One of those reasons is just simply that you can use cash app to pay for Wishtender . I also like this one just for the simple fact that it keeps my anonymity, and it also lets the submissive pay in his own currency and it's worldwide. I use this one because I enjoy the fact that it takes the fees out of the person paying and not the other way around and there's no way to charge back. So in the end, the dominant is actually very protected with this particular payment. Since Wishtender is completely shut down I thought I would share another that I use called tipfunder. Working almost the same as wishtender.
 

You also have pay methods such as only fans, loyal fans, and pretty much any adult site that she uses. These are the ones that actually take fees out of her payment but not the person paying. These methods also keep the anonymity of both parties and can be nice alternatives.

so make sure anytime that you use pay methods in this industry you research their terms of use and make sure that any submissive paying with that method knows it as well. Remember to keep yourself safe by paying attention to which pay method share your real name and information with who's paying.

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