The power of total submission

There is a part of submission, Findom included, that is mentioned in photo captions and comments but not really drilled down into much in public.

These are my views, they won't represent all Dommes or all subs. They do however give you an insight into the other side of Findom, the one not necessarily shown by the "Twitter Dommes".

The ultimate goal of submission in my eyes is relinquishing complete control.

Becoming a version of yourself that you wouldn't have been able to achieve without your Domme.

This means you need to allow the Domme to shape you, mould you, reprogram your view of yourself, and your purpose. 

To do this you need to provide the Domme with the tools into your mind. They need to know how you tick, your weaknesses, insecurities, motivations. You can learn a lot from observation but the real change comes from exposing that information. Submitting shows that exposure.

This is where most subs fall and don't make the most of the opportunity.

Either they aren't interested in real change, or they aren't ready to go deep enough to submit on that level. 

Of course getting to that point can take time, you need to connect with your Domme and grow your trust in order to expose yourself so fully. But it's so worth it. 

Those are the types of subs I am interested in, the ones willing to go deeper. Who understand the real worth of having My attention and will hand over every part of themselves in order to become the best they can be by being in service to someone else. 

Are you one of those? Or are you just here to satisfy your own kinky fantasies?