Findom vs Femdom

by Goddessfemme00 on September 18, 2022

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I'm very interested in others thoughts on the difference between the two. I've been in this a while now. I got off site because I felt too many here subs... were seeking fem and not fin. I was always in the mindset findom was finacial domination. Not you get on cam act a fool show body n subs gives u stuff. It's literally you know your place and it's I spend your$ as I want. I control how you spend it. Not trades acts of service for ur crumbs. I'm finding more n more of this. I can be in a turtle neck gloves hat n covered and you still submit. When did it change. When did acts of service n $ swapping happen n we call it findom. Isn't that femdom......I'd love to see other sub and doms thoughts.

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Miss_Alley

Femdom is the umbrella term that other niche fetishes, including findom, fall under. I get a blank stare when I read "I'm a findom, not a Femdom" because, by definition, all kinds of domination done by a Female is Femdom. I find a lot of subs want other aspects of Femdom, and to not pay for it; ther... View more

Like 11 September 18, 2022

GoddessGabriella

in My experience, a pure finsub is a needle in a haystack. Of course, they are out there and take time to cultivate the relationship. If we think about pure fetish play, say for example balloons, when an non-sexual object creates a sexual reaction in someone, we can create content and/or provide s... View morein My experience, a pure finsub is a needle in a haystack. Of course, they are out there and take time to cultivate the relationship. If we think about pure fetish play, say for example balloons, when an non-sexual object creates a sexual reaction in someone, we can create content and/or provide sessions for that. A balloon fetishist will probably purchase lots of that content, sexualized/nudity or not. Will more content sell if there is nudity and sexualized material in the content? No doubt. Does that mean your content/sessions/etc. need to require nudity or sexualized content? Absolutely not. Nudity and sexualization is more for the masses whereas the pure art form (whatever the art is) is not necessarily going to attract the masses as it is designed to cater to the select few. We can provide services to the masses or cater to the more "refined palette." If you cater to the masses, chances are you will put off those that are more pure at heart. The same goes vice versa. I have had in person finslaves , which was the most lucrative, in My experience. I also had other BDSM subs as well. I moved abroad and took My services virtual. I live stream and provide My services via cam sites, phone, email, and sell content. I'm non-nude and only do D/s sessions. There are plenty on these sites looking for a regular cam show. However, there are plenty looking for a true D/s relationship. Am I turning away the masses? Of course. Do I care? Hell no. It's about the art form and those looking for that find their way to ME. Think about how porn has warped what a session is like with a Pro-Domme. Pro-Dommes deal with the masses initiating conversations with them looking for sex/nudity/etc. and that's not what a Pro-Domme does. There's tons of porn out there featuring sexually aggressive Dommes. There are lifestyle Dommes that are like that and enjoy that. That does not mean all Dommes are that though. Also, I'd have to say there are varying degrees of those dipping their toes into the findom world to those that are the needle in the haystack, transactional, roleplay, all the way to true finsub. Maybe they already have a budget in mind and blow it in one go or have a budget for each session. Transactional and roleplay customers can be molded and turned into true finsubs. Can ALL of them be turned? No.

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Like 5 September 22, 2022

towelboy

True financial control is nigh on to impossible in an online only dynamic. Even if She is given control of a bank account there is no way to know if it's the subs full financial situation. If the sub has enough money to feed his desires without sacrifice then is it true domination? As mentioned by a... View more

Like 1 October 30, 2022

Miss_Alley

You've been interacting with the wrong Dommes if experience has left you believing that there's no way to be truly dominated online

Like 1 October 30, 2022