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kafegurl
by on August 1, 2022
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Communication and Boundries

If you approach a Domme, you should have a clear understanding of what your desires are.  Dommes and subs come in all shapes, sizes, abilities and desires.  When you approach me, I will expect you to have your own desires and boundaries well laid out and be able to communicate them with me clearly as well as negotiate terms.

Providing a baseline understanding of the kind of dynamic you are looking for can maximize your pleasure as well as your pain.  When I tell you to show your appreciation, you should immediately proceed to my wish list and purchase a gift.  My time and attentions to you, cost me time (money) and energy (both physically and emotionally.)  In order for me to provide you with the best possible experience, please think through what you want, and be ready to communicate those needs clearly.  How much of my time would you like?  What kind of experience would you like?  How much is it worth to you?

I already know my worth, do you?

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Priestess Jas
I love this, and it's such a key part. Not just for FinDom but generally for life. People see exchange as a monetary thing when really it is about time, energy and value. If I'm spending x amount of time & energy on you, I am the one who decides the value of it. If you don't agree, then you don't u... View more
Like August 3, 2022
kafegurl
Well said! Thank you for the like!
Like August 3, 2022