Domme Chronicles Promoting the Home Queen, and other Sunday musings.

This is going to seem like an odd blog to some, but I whole heartedly believe, in teaching a boy to celebrate his home Queen first, to help develop the dynamic within his home relationship. I obviously am not a sole findomme, I am a lifestyle Domme, with a findom twist. so thats why I enjoy the leisure of chatting with, & getting to know the boys. In my chats I have found some guilt about serving someone when they have a spouse/partner. when these concerns come up I like to reassure my boys that while the fantasy/role play of home wrecking is fun, its not something I would do seriously. I appreciate and give props to wives. Its a tough fucking job to deal with these shits on a daily basis, as well as children, jobs etc.
So when dealing with unowned play subs, sub friends, or my own boys...
I like to encourage my boys to explore their kinks with their partners, I ask to hear about it after, and I cheer them on, or help them workout another approach. If they are feeling guilty about tribs, I encourage them to buy their partner a surprise gift/flowers/task. Better yet, do all of the above! Buy her something she's been wanting, bring her flowers, make her dinner, and service your Queen!! when your done, bathe her, brush her hair and put her to bed. When thats done, and she's sleeping soundly, come back and report to me. Tell me every detail on your knees, thank me for improving your life, and send proper tribute. It is quite the fulfilling experience, and stocks my Karma bank as well.
Obviously not every scene is like this, but this is my solution to guilt feelings, home discourse, stress etc. a stressed out unhappy sub is no good to anyone.
I am a healer in my vanilla life and Im a healer/mom figure in my BDSM life as well. I like to nurture and watch boys grow. So if things go great, and they need to leave findom because they have found happiness and fulfillment in their vanilla life, while i will miss the daily connection, I will be far more happy for my boy who is living happily, and will always remember his time with me. Some boys will be happy to serve their Goddess as well as their wives for a life time. I have no problem with this at all, I will always put my Fam first, because nothing is greater than Fam. So I allow, and encourage the boys I come into contact with, to serve the home team first as well.