My Personal Sub Preferences

There are different strokes for different folks, and I'm not here to bash what works for anyone else. To each their own; I am neither judge nor jury. But for me, FinDom is about love, admiration, and trust. You, the sub, show your love and admiration through money-- tributes, gifts, tithes, etc. that you worked hard to earn. You show your trust by being vulnerable with your Domme in giving her access to those hard-earned resources.

I don't want a "paypig" or a "walking ATM". I don't want someone who wants me to absolutely ruin them, destroy their lives, break up their family, and leave them destitute. What would be the point in that? If you are destitute, you no longer have anything to offer me, and then our relationship would have to be terminated. (Please keep in mind-- as I said, if this idea is what gets you excited, by all means, have at it. You do you, boo. Everyone should find the arrangement that works to suits their own needs/desires.)

Personally, I want someone with intelligence enough to a.) be able to carry on an interesting conversation, and b.) consciously, thoughtfully conclude that I am the best investment they can make, that making me happy is worth sacrifice on their part. Someone who offers me the trust demonstrated by financial servitude, without the expectation of recieving anything in return but the assurance of my happiness. That speaks volumes. That is admirable.That is a sub into whom I would willingly invest my own time and energy.