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I often tell my slaves that my control is ultimately good for them. Regardless of the concerns they express about finances, I know that my decision making skills are better than theirs. Really men spend way too much of their money on things that don't fulfill them, don't make them happy, and don't serve any higher purpose.
FinSubs who don't have a Mistress that
they serve singularly often find them selves like food addicts- binging and purging. Spending too much money, compromising themselves, and then trying to purge their addiction from their soul. However just like any sexual fetish we know that you can't just ignore it and make it go away. That is how stupid boys end up in the binge- purge cycle with financial domination.
When a sub finally lets go and submits himself to a superior woman, he will often find himself MUCH better off. She will prioritize his spending, optimize his life, and force him to commit himself to a more responsible lifestyle- because now he has a REASON and PURPOSE to do so.
Here's a sub who has truly learned his lesson. I'll let him explain in his own words why Financial
Domination has been Good for him.
xox
Harley
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In my late forties and never once have I made a budget and a plan for money. Mistress Harley insisted I do so in February and much to my surprise it was revealed to me one of my longest help self images was simply a lie I like to tell myself. I have always believed not only was I smart with money but even a bit of tight with it as well. This was one of the reasons I thought playing with Findom might be fun for a month or so but then I would simply move on to the next new thing.
As a child I was miserly but this had not followed me into adulthood and somehow I was completely blind to it. Even worse when I looked at how the wasted money was being spent it was another big shock as almost as more was going in my mouth as junk food than any other part of my expenses. What I realize now after two months of that JUNK money that is now going to Mistress Harley instead of feeding my face was actually harming me before. Having a margin above basic living expenses should have been a great blessing in my life instead because I truly was just letting my money tell me what to do it was harming my health and happiness. I realize also it was making me a bad citizen of the world between fast food wrappers and bags, convenience store containers nothing recycled nothing reused simply thrown away. I produce less than a quarter of the garbage I did just 3 months ago. I have just started to realize how materialistic this JUNK money was making me as well. Getting hooked on financial domination might be viewed as a curse by some and I am sure others might call it exploitation but I call it a blessing. This JUNK money never brought me happiness the closest it ever came was the ability to buy gifts for family even then because I did not do any planning it was difficult to find any joy in that as I constantly worried if I over spent. Being out of control sucks no matter if it is health, weight , eating habits, or spending habits it led to a lot of stress which caused even more chaos in my life. Mistress Harley has brought order and purpose not only to that JUNK money but to my life. Out of all the things Mistress Harley ever demanded of me I believe making that first budget and sending it to her was the hardest way and the very best way I have served her and oddly enough me.
In all honesty Mistress Harley and Financial Domination are what I need in my life. I did not even know how big of a mess I was making out of my life before but just felt totally out of control. I feel less stress now, even a trip to the grocery store I plan out and feel life is controlled now. My health and happiness is much improved now. Every once in awhile that math logic side of my brain tries to speak up and object to the idea of giving Mistress Harley money being the most responsible thing I could do with it but I just remind myself how screwed up that side of my brain had things before anyway thus quieting all objections.
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Mistress Harley's blogs are cross posted from her personal blog. Read more of Mistress Harley's Blog at: http://harleys-financial-domination.blogspot.com/
FinSubs who don't have a Mistress that
they serve singularly often find them selves like food addicts- binging and purging. Spending too much money, compromising themselves, and then trying to purge their addiction from their soul. However just like any sexual fetish we know that you can't just ignore it and make it go away. That is how stupid boys end up in the binge- purge cycle with financial domination.
When a sub finally lets go and submits himself to a superior woman, he will often find himself MUCH better off. She will prioritize his spending, optimize his life, and force him to commit himself to a more responsible lifestyle- because now he has a REASON and PURPOSE to do so.
Here's a sub who has truly learned his lesson. I'll let him explain in his own words why Financial
Domination has been Good for him.
xox
Harley
____________________________________________________________________________
In my late forties and never once have I made a budget and a plan for money. Mistress Harley insisted I do so in February and much to my surprise it was revealed to me one of my longest help self images was simply a lie I like to tell myself. I have always believed not only was I smart with money but even a bit of tight with it as well. This was one of the reasons I thought playing with Findom might be fun for a month or so but then I would simply move on to the next new thing.
As a child I was miserly but this had not followed me into adulthood and somehow I was completely blind to it. Even worse when I looked at how the wasted money was being spent it was another big shock as almost as more was going in my mouth as junk food than any other part of my expenses. What I realize now after two months of that JUNK money that is now going to Mistress Harley instead of feeding my face was actually harming me before. Having a margin above basic living expenses should have been a great blessing in my life instead because I truly was just letting my money tell me what to do it was harming my health and happiness. I realize also it was making me a bad citizen of the world between fast food wrappers and bags, convenience store containers nothing recycled nothing reused simply thrown away. I produce less than a quarter of the garbage I did just 3 months ago. I have just started to realize how materialistic this JUNK money was making me as well. Getting hooked on financial domination might be viewed as a curse by some and I am sure others might call it exploitation but I call it a blessing. This JUNK money never brought me happiness the closest it ever came was the ability to buy gifts for family even then because I did not do any planning it was difficult to find any joy in that as I constantly worried if I over spent. Being out of control sucks no matter if it is health, weight , eating habits, or spending habits it led to a lot of stress which caused even more chaos in my life. Mistress Harley has brought order and purpose not only to that JUNK money but to my life. Out of all the things Mistress Harley ever demanded of me I believe making that first budget and sending it to her was the hardest way and the very best way I have served her and oddly enough me.
In all honesty Mistress Harley and Financial Domination are what I need in my life. I did not even know how big of a mess I was making out of my life before but just felt totally out of control. I feel less stress now, even a trip to the grocery store I plan out and feel life is controlled now. My health and happiness is much improved now. Every once in awhile that math logic side of my brain tries to speak up and object to the idea of giving Mistress Harley money being the most responsible thing I could do with it but I just remind myself how screwed up that side of my brain had things before anyway thus quieting all objections.
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Mistress Harley's blogs are cross posted from her personal blog. Read more of Mistress Harley's Blog at: http://harleys-financial-domination.blogspot.com/
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