A Big Fat Slap of Reality!!

*The following post is written in a direct, blunt, and strict language, that may not appeal to everyone, but still with respect towards all members of the community.

I usually don't like making these type of posts but today I'm making an exception hoping that this will be something that both sides can read and take some pointers from in the greater goal towards improvement and understanding!

Slaves, submissives, fetishists, kinksters, males of this community, I will start off with you! 

Get your shit together and understand what you are and what you will always be regardless of your preferences and desires!

Men and Women are not Equal! We are wired differently - mentally wise, emotionally, physically and psyche wise!

We may say we want equality in the rights we have but we are NOT, never were, and never will be Equals!

Having that in mind let me remind you that males are so very simple! You Are simpletons!

Governed by your carnivore desires you are a toy at the fingertips of any Dominant Woman and especially a FinDom.

Now when I use the word Dominant Female I am not talking about the preference, attraction, erotic stimulation/arousal you feel from a bratty, spoilt, self centred, hot looking woman that gives you a bulge inside your pants!That isn't all Dominance is about!

Dominance is a shit loads of things packed together,and it's definitely NOT at all like the bdsm porn you have been getting off to!

If you are an experienced lifestyle slave you will understand exactly what I am talking about, but I see there is a lack of quantity of those hard to find lifestyle slaves, especially into Financial Domination!

Let's start from basics!

A submissives, slaves - or whatever the label is you respond to - job, is to ensure that he makes his Dommes life easier! Happier!...Just like between a vanilla context type of relationship, where ppl should be having partners come into their life, that contribute towards their happiness and lifestyle they already have! Even more so in any type or style of Domination!

If you don't understand and you are not fuelled by the core essence of The Domination/Submission principles, meaning, if you don't find Submitting, in the act of submission, to a Dominant Female of any sort arousing....YOU ARE NOT SUBMISSIVE! YOU ARE A PAYING CUSTOMER and that to a Dominant Female might be a BIG TURN OFF!

TO ME PERSONALLY IT IS THE FASTEST WAY TO GO...BARF...and not talk to you again cz you gt nothing to offer ME 

When you act and behave with an ulterior motive and expectation, the most experienced ones see right through you and it's repulsive to us because you are nothing but a little man child, governed by your tiny, stupid, ugly looking weener, and that's why we will never be Equals!

Erotic Dominance, or as I like to call it..."Erotic Manipulation" is the easiest thing to do but it doesn't make the Female a Dominant and it doesn't make you Submissive!!There's no man out there willful enough to be able to resist a good looking, successful female let alone a Dominant one! Not even narcissists, or sociopaths. We shine! And we always attract! And we either discard you beacause you're the type of pathetic that doesn't even deserve to live or we devour you!

Erotic Domination as I said above is the easiest type of Domination and it really doesn't take a Dominant Female to accomplish that! It can be a bratt with more issues than just her bratty behaviour. Not saying it can't or won't be used by Dominants...but when you clearly tell us, either in a direct or indirect, or insinuating way, what you want and what you expect and you show expectation out of your tribute you've lost any chance with a Real Dominant. We will piss all over you!🤣

Now with Financial Domination you need to understand the Dommes desires, point of view, perspective, wants, drives etc and in order to do that you have to want it!

If your only thought is what can I get off "her" and how fast you can "blow your load" forget it! You will always be the type that will never trully experience what Financial Domination is cz you're too sucked into your ego and cant let go of control and you will always complain about how no Domme is good enough! Be fucking real to yourself! At least with your kinks and on this platform! 

You hide all day and for the most part of your lives in the real world...hiding here and from your own selves....its cowardly and sad the least!

When finally you have established what you are and what it is you're looking for and when you practice self honesty, you might get lucky and find that compatible Domme, some relief, fulfillment, and an Owner that complements your life...Adds to it!

If you are e fetishist say it! You are a community whore...say it! You wanna pop here in there whenever you feel like it...Say it!.....DO NOT PRETEND TO BE MORE THAN WHAT YOU REALLY ARE! Do not expect to get what a devoted, loyal, FinSub or FinSlave is getting though!

Because they are devoting and sacrificing and showing the ultimate form of submission with their Financial submission and they don't have demands! Which is why they get REWARDED in whatever way we feel like! ...And on this thread I'm referring to a long term, real lifestyle relationship between FinDom/FinSlave-Sub. Because these are the types of relationships that fulfill both sides on a genuine level!

Some of us, myself included, want to get to know you, get inside your head, screw with it...its part of the pleasure, arousal we get when we take your hard earned money...Knowing we got ur wallet and messing with ur head! ( there's plenty more I like to do bt sticking to majority!😈)

Now for the ladies:

Ladies, STOP copying others! Don't pretend to be or know something you don't cause experienced subs/slaves see right through you!

Don't confuse Dominance with being a person with a bratty attitude and a pretty face cause these beta boys will use you and buy you and will be on to the next flavour cause that's all you can offer them...so if you don't know how to Dominate get advice from experienced ppl or you won't last long...

You will not be a millionaire on this site and there's no shame in ASKING for guidance! DO IT! If nobody has been helpful try sending me a message!

Also PLEASE! LADIES! Keep your personal vanilla everyday life out of here...it is such a turn OFF even to me! Let alone subs/slaves!

Dominantly Yours

Goddess Mystic 😈👠⛓💸💲🤑💰