Emotionally Invested Domme

In any relationship, I put so much of myself into it. Whether this be my friendships, my spouse, or my subs. I'm naturally introverted, and often would prefer to spend my spare time tucked away from the world with a good book. 

Yet, I thrive in findom. It lets me be bold as I rarely am surrounded by strangers. It's as if I can take off this quiet mask and embrace my dominant heart. 

I'm a control freak and I love it. 

Yet, because of how much I put of myself into my D/S relationships, when they don't work out, I feel pain. I could look for the subs who just want a taste to quell them over for a week. But it's never as fulfilling as I desire. 

With time, the sub who wishes to be owned by me naturally gets the so-called girlfriend experience. I want to know how their days went, how their relationships are going, what they're proud of. I've even given relationship advice to subs when they wanted it. 

So many subs have mistaken me as this sweet woman who could never give them the discipline or humiliation they want since I don't mind talking about favorite Disney movies before ever telling them to lick the bottoms of my dirty shoes.

But it makes the submission of those who are willing to take the emotional risk so much more satisfying.