This weeks thoughts

I'm a firm believer in Karma. I'm also one that was taught treat others as You wish to be treated which is ironic considering I'm a domme and rule and control submissives, so how exactly does either one of those fall into play in My daily life aside from vanillers peoples?
I'm a little good with a little bad, ying and yang. Earlier this week on twitter I had a submissive follow Me , I in return followed back, I do have a habit of checking out those who follow Me feed on twitter to see who they are as a person, their interests and if they may have some value. This one in particular that I had followed messaged Me saying thank you for the follow your absolutely perfect, now when I was going through his tweets something bothered Me that he had tweeted and of course if you all know Me I called him out on it, the bothersome tweet had to do with a so called domme instructing him to send his daughters birthday money to her and her stud and that his daughter was as much of a loser as he was.
Now what urked Me was that he agreed with her(notice Im not capping her because she doesn't deserve My respect).Now most of Y.you know I am a mother, and I am fortunate enough that My daughter has turned out like Me in some aspects , but the fact is if she hadn't I wouldn't ever consider My daughter a loser there's this thing with parents and their children called unconditional love and as parents we are there to teach,guide and make them better people .* to put this in the daughter I am referring to is a adult not Mine but the idiots* and no one not even a so called dominant would get away with saying that about My daughter to Me.
The astounding thing wasn't the backbone because in reality there are a few submissives who have no back done and let unethical women walk over them and abuse their family.
Grant it I understand ruination is a fetish just like home wrecking is , but it should stay in fantasy land and not go any further then that . I see plenty of subs who enjoy having their wives put down and like seeing dommes say Im better then your wife.
Ive had one sub over the past umpteen years Ive been doing this where I did take her money, their money that they shared and spared and I had nicknamed her troll. I was comfortable with it to a degree, I didn't call his house to make her suspicious, I didn't send emails taunting her and belittling her I just took her and his money, needless to say that lasted like 5 years.
Today Im not comfortable doing it, I'm not comfortable demeaning some one that isn't into the fetish, I'm not comfortable ruining a marriage or a family, nor do I think Im better then them because of what a submissive or slave may rant about them because there are two sides to every story, and if a submissive or slave is going to down talk the person they have been married to for years that they are suppose to care about it support why would I want some one like that serving Me.
I emphasized to the man in My twitter dm that what he said was disgusting that treating his child like that was appalling and asked him whats the difference was between this domme humiliating her and shit talking her then a man treating his daughter like shit, and would he allow a man to do that to her, he said no so I asked why the hell would you let a so called domme do it? his answer was I don't know. I of course explained the difference between fantasy and reality etc and needless to say I killed the conversation and oddly enough he disappeared off twitter,
Now I have arrispetcucky, Ive had him going on 7 years, he has a family he has children, and I would NEVER do anything to jeopardize his family or make them go with out, for a while I had the mind set of , you dont need to get your gf pressies( I did not say that towards his spawn) but a cple years ago I was like ya know what he has to keep her happy too, not just so suspicions are aroused but because they are together for a reason, he may spend all his money on Me but now he does give her cheap her little gifts and as women we all know how it sucks not to get something from your significant other, its a slap in the face when you don't and it makes you feel unappreciated.
What I'm saying is draw the line between fantasy and reality and try not to step over it, it will come back to bite you in the ass at some point and time, and home wrecking yeah it might be a fetish but have some sort of morals and ethics when it comes to bdsm, you wouldn't some one wrecking your family, and the thing is with home wrecking when you cross that line and ruin some one, do you really think that person will stick around after the fact and continue to have warm squishy feelings towards you, it doesn't , it turns to hate and trying to even the score in some instances.
Actions and words have consequences .... some of those consequences you really don't want so stay ethical, don't be TOO greedy think of the whole picture and care about the longevity of the situation.
My 4am rambling has come to a end cause now I need coffee and a hot soak in the tub.
Just something to think about....