7 years ago and 7 years later: findomiversary

I'll never forget the day i joined. It was after midnight on this day. the site was the old version. where the chatroom was on the main page. it was small and i couldnt figure out how to make it bigger. a fellow Domme helped me and boy was she patient with me lol. i figured out how to be in the room. Admin verified me. Ill remember that i didnt look that good. my hair was up, i was in my kitchen, etc. she had me holdup 6 fingers. It took me a few mins to figure that out lol. I figured it out and with a smile hold up the 6 fingers. i was nervous as well there were lots of cams looking at me. were happy to see another Domme on the site ....i stayed up a bit longer on cam. but once i had enough being so overwhelmed, i decided to go to bed. ive been a findomme 11 months before as i was doing foot nights here in Boston. and a fellow Domme told me about being one. she taught me a few things, etc. i did sessions on skype mostly as i didnt have a place to hold sessions in. I now have a place that i can hold sessions in thanks to my mentor. She is teaching me how to do sessions outside of skype. which is awesome. im learning a lot from her. plus we do double sessions. which is tons of fun.

so the years roll around. Tributes came and went. then more came and went, etc. I learned a lot about myself over the 7 years. Ive had a few subs that didnt last long which was ok. they werent the right ones. I know that ill find the right one. Maybe he hasnt joined yet. i love being a royal Domme as i can see who peeks at my profile. lots of subs. quite a few actually. i look at their profile to see them. plus if they view my profile, i can see theirs :D. i learned to do my own branding, change it up if needed, and nothing is perfect. I learned who to be friends with and who not to be friends with. who to block and who to keep. i change it up a lot to be honest. ive been bullied, picked on, etc. ive been called many names, etc. i am my own person with my own thoughts, etc. overall, what i am is what makes me the best i can be.

this year has been a hard year to deal with. not having sessions for a few months to where i have them bring in a covid testing negative, etc to the sessions. im now on niteflirt which is still new. an avenue that i am trying out...i make sure that they fall thorugh with it. and know that i mean business. time is money and my time is precious. i use to work for a financial firm in NYC that was big. i learned about aquisitions, and how money is played with. money is somethng i breathe in. money is fun, serious, all about the talk and more.

i also have grown in what to take for tributes. at first it was google pay, amazon and circle pay. now its google pay, cashapp, venmo and gift cards to starbucks or target. no more amazon. they closed my acct. a week before black friday which is the biggest day i spend on that store. but oh well. i have my other wish list on target. which may not work for international subs but they can send me a gift card from target tho. im pretty sure they can. i only accept paypal to those that are vetted, been in the kink at least 10 years or more, etc. i have strict rules that the subs hear....but overall, i avoid paypal. i like getting cashapp. simple, but if you do it in an instant it takes out a small fee. but thats ok. google pay is instant right into your acct. no fees or anything. so i like that too but dont get that many of it. venmo i dont get many of. but when i do, its nice.

so here we are. 7 years later. now i move forward to another 7 years where i grow some more, learn some more, etc. meet some of the Dommes that i have became friends with on here and elsewhere. continue to network and meet subs to play with. I hope to find my finsub that will be there for the long run. One that can understand everything and learn some. so i have goals, etc to write down. so here we go next 7 years. let it be good.

now subs, approach and send a tribute. it is 7 years now