My Rules and Whatnots

Yes another cross post from one of My pages on www.paymepiggy.com (I'll make a post about this special URL at some point to talk more about it and why it is so special to Me)

My Rules and whatnots
Read, pay attention, and obey!




Rules are essential for the smooth running of any Realm! The Rules give you a basic structure on which I build on. The Rules are made by the ONE in charge and are to be obeyed by the underlings. In this Realm I am the One who is in charge and who holds control, while you are subjugated to those Rules and must obey them. My Realm is NOT a democracy! If this is too difficult for you to accept or comprehend you may depart now and not come back. You have been excused!

Whatnots are things that I refuse to put up with or even consider offering. You may consider those MY personal hard limits! Yes even a Goddess has them. Should any of them be brought up by you, you'll earn yourself a one way ticket into the Ignore Bin and Blocked Section. Those are reserved for weasel dicked low function dipsticks. A place you should avoid! Got that one? Very good, you are doing fine!

The majority of My Rules are common sense and basic manners! Since common sense isn't that common these days, and basic manners seem to be rather infrequent, it is necessary to write them out for people visiting. This way W/we are all on the same page and everything is clearly laid out for you! You may make an informed decision if you can live under those rules or if you need to find someone with no rules or different rules. In either case, these rules stand and are not up for debate.

If you take a good look at all the text I just got done typing above you already can see a couple of rules have emerged. I won't translate them for you, consider it a test of your basic intelligence to figure them out. If that feels to difficult for you, I am not the ONE for you. Again, you may be excused!

Let's go over My basic Rules!

#1 Address Me properly and at the level of your status with Me!

For those with no Status or low level status I am either Ma'am, Goddess Bella Donna or Miz Bella Donna. No Status are those who are brand new to Me. Low Status are those who are just starting out and are within their first 3 to 6 months. For either no or low status boys those 3 options are the only ones acceptable. This changes have been told otherwise and have been raised in status by Me.

Your status level changes only under these circumstances:

you serve Me as a regular casual for an already reasonable duration of time,
someone who is filling one of My positions properly and fully
one of my loyal, reliable, eager and wonderful submissive boys, sissies, pets, devotees etc.

Naturally the 3rd is My personal favorite. Those are being conditioned by Me for the amazing honor of working towards a long-term D/s, M/s, or FD/fs relationship with a possible collar at the end.

In those cases you will be permitted to call Me, Goddess, Mistress, Queen, or M'Lady. Never anything else and not before I allow it to you either. That privilege is earned, not just given!

#2 I am friendly when I am pleased, but I am not your Buddy!

I learned a long time ago that when it comes to interactions between the Goddess and those serving, you need to keep the lines drawn and in place. This gives the submissive individual their structure and comfort. It reminds them of their place with you and keeps the temptation to see them-self as equals at bay.

I have a few boys whom I stand Mentor to and who adore Me as well as show their appreciation to Me. They show their respect and appreciation buying Me gifts or tributing to Me from time to time just to make Me happy.

Those boys are NOT MY SUBS, but they actually belong to someone else who has send them to Me for:

further education,
counseling when they need someone to talk to outside of their Goddess,
stand Guard over them when their Goddess cannot be present.
help them to learn how to accept them-selves easier.

For them I function as their Mentor, their Guide in a secondary position, or their Mediator if necessary. To them I have extended a level of friendship, but they would NEVER even think of seeing them-selves as equal to Me. In those cases I am a trusted by their Goddess individual whom they have permission to call on My Mistress Listing or purchase educational content from.

To MY own subs and underlings however I am always the Goddess and I am not their Friend, their buddy or anything else that would even remotely denote that W/we are equals in this Relationship. It doesn't work when you allow this blending and confusion of the lines between U/us. It doesn't mean I don't care about them, but it means I am not their Friend instead of their Goddess. It assures that they structure stays intact.

#3 You are here to serve Me!

Serving Me means that you will behave in such a manner that benefits Me first and foremost. It means that you will assure that My wants and needs are met by you in a selfless manner. It means that you will do whatever necessary to make Me happy. It means that you will keep Me as stress free as possible, and ALWAYS put Me before your own desires and wants. It means that you live up to your purpose and should never be confused with you only doing what pleases you. A good submissive is a treasure and has his needs and wants met as well. Goddess comes AFTER your survival needs and BEFORE your desires and wants always!

#4 Know your priorities!

What is a priority? A priority is something that must always be taken care of first before everything else. Your survival needs are always your first priority!

Survival needs are:

Your bills paid
Food so you don't go hungry
Adequate weather appropriate Clothing and Shelter
Medicine if you are sick
Transportation to work so you can earn My money
Adequate rest so you are able to focus and function on serving Me

If you are married and have a Family to support those survival needs extend to those who are in your care and depend on you. That includes:

Education for your offspring
Child Support and Alimony paid if you are divorced
All the above in section one taken care for them fully and without short cuts.
Whatever it is they NEED .. and wants for special occasions.

I always come AFTER your survival needs, your wife and kids if you have them, and BEFORE you. Take care of your obligations before taking care of your wants. My subs are honorable men (yes even sissies) whom I can be proud of! I can't be proud of dead beat husbands and sperm donors.

#5 Treat Me like the Goddess I am!

That means that I stand above you always and with that you will treat Me with the highest respect and worshipful approach. Make an effort to actually get to know Me as a human being and Lady instead of just an illusion and title that arouses you. Put your best manners forward always and realize that W/we are both still human beings in the end.

Show an interest in the things I enjoy and share the things you enjoy with Me as well. Show some initiative! Show Me that you want to please Me instead of just talking about it. Research Me before approaching Me so you know whom you are approaching. Remember that just as you have had to choose to want to serve Me, I have to choose to accept you into service to Me. Give Me a reason to feel intrigued to want to get to know you and have you at My feet. Use your words and intelligence when interacting with Me. Be someone I will look forward to interacting with and have kneeling to Me. It's a lot easier than it sounds for those who are truly submissive and devoted in nature.

Remember that you court and woo a Goddess like the special Lady She is. Be a gentleman submissive or gentile subservient sissy for Me. Show Me that you think I belong on that place of honor before you instead of just offering up empty words to Me.

#6 HONESTY FIRST ALWAYS

I am allergic to liars and there are very few things that I distaste more than someone who finds it amusing to make promises they have no intentions of holding. Always be honest with Me from the start and continue to be that way. I am a lot more forgiving about hearing something I may not like then finding out you lied to Me. I find lies insulting to My intelligence and it tells Me that you think I can't handle being told something I might not like hearing. I find lies to be manipulative and childish, those who serve Me are neither of those.

Lies stop trust from existing and I have to be able to trust you just as much as you have to be able to trust Me. I will teach you how to humbly speak up when something is wrong or you are dealing with a tough situation once you are one of Mine. Being honest is not something you have to fear with Me.

#7 Financial servitude is not optional

If you have a problem with serving Me financially and making tributes to Me then keep moving along. I am a Femdom and Financial Dominatrix and that means if you come to Me claiming to want to serve Me it will include financially. I am not a breadcrumb type of Lady darlings. That means if you can barely afford to take care of your needs you don't belong here. That is for your own safety as well. A small tribute with no strings attached may please Me but it won't put you into the position of serving Me in a long term D/s type situation.

Take a look at your budget first and make sure you are financially stable and above barely making it before even considering wanting to become My submissive, pet, puppet, devotee etc. You don't have to be rich to serve Me but you do have to have a decent reliable income which puts you into at least the upper Middle Class. With other words you can afford to be generous with Me without putting yourself into harms way.

Those are basic common sense Rules on which I build. Meaning each individual submissive under My control will have rules added to them as I condition and train them. Always in accordance of the place they aspire to.

Always do your very best for Me and remember that in order to be known by Me you have to actually approach Me. The only person able to waste My time is Me and with that said remember that you only get ONE chance to make a good first impression. Regrets are a terrible thing ...

Now let's go to MY whatnots:

Ruination
Homewrecking
Roman Showers
Anyone under 30 years of age
Contact by Owned or UC boys without their Mistress permission
The obviously illegal things

If you have read through all of this and you find that you wish to initiate contact with Me you may do so. Make sure you put your best foot forward, introduce yourself properly to Me and be prepared to show Me a sign of sincerity. Don't make Me bring it up or ask for it or I will assume you are just a fetish client looking for a quick fix session. That is something different then wishing to gain the opportunity to become one of My good boys or sissies. Use some common sense!

I prefer first time contacts via Email - you may send it to [email protected]

If I am interested and find you intriguing and feel that you might have potential I will invite you to My Skype or YIM.

Boys looking purely for a fetish session in a professional domination capacity may email Me as well and set up an appointment with Me or see if they get lucky enough to catch Me on Skype or YIM; For both My contact is MizBellaDonna2you
Professional Domination / Fetish Sessions are by default Chat to begin with. I only offer Webcam when I am in the mood for it or you have earned it.

Goddess Bella Donna