Mixed signals

When looking at pictures online, I find many send mixed signals. Men are visual creatures. Our pictures are an important part of attracting attention from subs and ultimately their wallet. Here are a few that can confuse.

Wearing Collars- Any collar, but especially the O-ring collar (one large ring for fastening). These are not part of a shirt's collar. Collars featuring such rings are often worn by submissives to indicate that they are in a D/s relationship. Seeing a woman wearing one as a fashion statement is confusing. The subs are wanting a dominant woman but might think you are a female sub.

Tongue Sticking Out- Tongue sticking straight out indicates a brat. The brat look is great for some, but it is not the confusing one. Tongue pointed down can be confusing for the submissive, it is the cumshot look. Getting ready to take a load in the face just does not look dominant.

On All Fours- Being in a doggie position looks like you are not the one in control. If you have a great derriere, there are more dominant ways to display it. Stand straight, heels on, angle your hip up slightly, awesome angle to show off that asset.

Kneeling- This does not look dominant. This is the position the sub wants to be in before you. I know, it is hard to get your bottom and shoes featured in the same photo, but there are other poses more suited. If you wonder if a pose appears submissive, look at a slave position chart and compare.

The Background- If your room is a huge mess, typically, you are as well. Pick up the area before shooting pictures or get creative with cropping. 

Sucking Dildoes- Just do not, it sends the wrong message, well at least for this website. Save that for Porn Hub. Let your sub do the strap-on suck pose instead.

The sub is looking for a queen to worship. Let that picture draw him in. You do the rest. Good luck.