Give it time!

I have seen subs jump into being owned or Dommes owning subs and it rarely works out, why? Because it was rushed into

You have to be willing to wait and give things  time. I will not own someone I barley know anything about, I need to ensure that we are on the same page, that the sub has worked hard and proved he is worth my time and attention, that he will follow through with what he says, none of this is going to happen over night. If a sub is asking me how long it will take to earn my trust or to prove themselves and so on it is an instant turn off and put off for me, if you truly want these things you will have the patience to do what is required.

Taking time is important in general not just when it comes to ownership, it applies to Dommes as well as subs. I know it seems easy when you are new to all this, we were all new at some point but you have to give yourself time to learn and educate yourself, to figure out what you truly do and don't enjoy  (off course that all applies to subs as well)

It is easy to rush in when bored or when turned on, sometimes I even think some rush in because of money, I have had subs in the past try and buy their way into ownership, they hoped I would care more about the money then them proving themselves to me, it is quality over quantity.

I also see a lot of I wish that was me or I wish I was getting that amount of tributes or had someone doing that for me, but it could be you, but again it takes time, you will see  wondeful relationships on here, don't think oh it will never happen for me or I won't have that, instead remember that those relationships were built with time and patience on both sides, with trust and effort 

I know it seems easier to just rush in because you want something now but you have to ask yourself will it truly be worth it? Yes you may get instant gratification but how are you going to feel after? 

You can't rush things like trust and hard work, you can't fast track a lasting relationship , take your time, slow down ,enjoy yourself and let things happen and flow flow naturally. Give it time