Serious Question

Serious question, do submissives think that Domme's don't talk to each other? And NO I do not mean gossip, I mean do they not think we as peers do not form genuine and sincere friendships outside of kink as well as inside kink?

I am not the type to personally go around and whisper unsolicited advice in someone's ear if I think a submissive is worthy of their time - different strokes for different folks. However, if another Domme comes to me as a peer or as a friend and asks me - I will give my honest information and thoughts.

Many of us DO engage in conversation with each other privately just as we do publicly and we often know if someone is running around rampant seeking freebies or (legitimately) wasting time that is precious to us as Dommes. If it didn't work with one Domme, chances are it won't work with anyone else she knows either (especially if you left a bad taste in their mouth). I don't condone drama, there's a difference between Domme A running to Domme B out of frustration and Domme A having a conversation about a bad experience with Domme B - but I do condone education and knowledge. Sometimes it's on the Domme that the experience went sour and maybe another Domme will be more suitable. But sometimes, and I'm noticing it becoming more and more frequent - it's on these little boys who seem to think we don't talk, or that we are not intelligent enough to see them playing a game.

We see you, we know what you think you're pulling - while you might catch a newer Domme still learning off guard, those with experience can smell the horny hunger on you from ten miles away.

Don't underestimate us. Don't underestimate our friendships. We don't just want your money and will stab each other in the back for it, you're likely not worth that kind of weight in our lives - if you think we will betray our friends for you, maybe we aren't your cup of tea. Maybe I only speak for myself and my friendships built over the years, but that's all that matters to me anyways. xoxo