Prove It.

I had a bad habit of taking it too personally when I thought there was a line of healthy communication and a sub would flake without a word. Not because of the money, money can always be made. There's always another sub dying to take that place. But because it’s rude, it made me angry.

I’ve come to realize though over the years, past that cliché “it’s their loss” mentality - why am I expending my precious emotions on another person who just proved they’re unworthy of them in the first place? Maybe they have their issues, maybe this that or the other thing... that’s fine. We are humans. Try communicating next time, or enjoy the view as it will now be of only my back.

A Domme that shows emotions isn’t a weak Domme, I come to care for my boys and want the best for them (so they can take care of me at their best). An understanding and respectful Domme isn’t a weak Domme, if there’s no trust where’s the true submission? But now it’s going to be exponentially harder to gain access to that part of me, my expectations are increasingly higher.

You want to impress me? You want to serve me?

Prove it, bitch boy. Earn it.

And if you're one of those, that decided to be rude. On a case by case basis I'll decide if I will ever let you back under my boot again - and it will be expensive.