Advice

I often get asked what advice I have for people starting out in Findom. I have a few. They are quite simple.

Be Yourself. Do not fake who you are. It takes too much work to put up a front. Eventually, you will slip up. Why exert the effort? You are someone's "cup of tea" just like you are.

Be patient. This takes time. Relationships are not built overnight.

Do not underestimate a submissive. They are not stupid. Do you really think a stupid man has made the kind of money it takes to please us? A trust fund idiot is few and far between. Most are hard-working, intelligent men. 

Get to know a submissive. Not all are the same. Not everyone is into humiliation, pain, being ignored, the list is endless. It pays to know their triggers, literally.

Do what makes you happy. A satisfied Domme is very intoxicating to a submissive. Have fun, whatever that may be for you. Surround yourself with a stable that you enjoy.

Good luck on your journey.