Just another ramble by Miss EM

The vast sea of menials is hard to cover every last being. Why is this? Regardless of common beliefs of inferiority the creatures and scum that dwell beneath our feet are human also. Some of them much less human than others, yet they are living breathing beings. They do exist. Knowing them can help determine if it is a proper enjoyable fit for an endeavor or not.

Because they exist does that mean they are needed? Not necessarily needed; some even disgusting and shameful nasty creatures. That may excite some which is why there is always someone for each. I do rather enjoy a variety Myself. That does not mean I do not have a preference on long term standards though. So what is it that makes the difference?

A Domme, Lady, Goddess, Superior wants some specific thing. For example some want conversations and some prefer just play. Being in Findom I think I speak for everyone that wallets and willingness (consent) are a must. Mind there is occasional up front, “Pay Me now!” from some (not My style though). It’s not that We as Superiors cannot understand hard times. Some of the strongest Females I have met have been knee deep through mud for an unreasonably long time prior to emerging as pronounced Superiors. Having hard times after having built a foundation, most would work with a lesser whom They are content with.

All along the roads do shape us A/all the strong and weak alike. One thing W/we must share in common is the ambition to WORK. By work I mean strive to meet deadlines, goals, and succeed at reaching them and building not only careers, but relationships. Some Women I know encourage further education, and outstanding work whilst holding themselves to high standards in their journeys as well. That does not mean They will not take part in emptying loaded wallets at Their whim. That only means that They will do it on Their terms. Much like Myself I even have standards for the lowest of the low.

Why would a Domme want a menial to further its education? Simple, with proper budget management, not only is She molding a better servant, She is expanding the bankroll instead of just busting it. A healthy bankroll is something every submissive is in need of. Money makes the lovely smiles shine after all. If a submissive is well on its feet and only seeking thrills that is great too. I know money is a rush for Me and I enjoy it as much as I enjoy a pedicure with nice strong hands.

Having a stable money situation and in need of attention, right? I guess running around telling everyone what you want could work. Oh that is such fun to scream at the top of their pathetic little lungs, “look at me, humiliate me, and use me!” That is one way to do it; if they are looking for attention you will find it. I am sure it has been found time and time again and still they ended up feeling like it was staged. Face the facts, it most likely was. I mean, there are an abundance cam girls out there looking to cater to what their wallet wants to open for. This does make it harder for Us no doubt, but the cam girls will never cease to exist.So if they are looking for a true or proper Domme with skills that will cripple their weak pathetic minds I suggest they approach with a message. Something with manners and reach out to get to know the Domme that interests them so much, if even for an hour, before scheduling a session (mind even that time may not come free of charge, but it is a chance-do research prior to outreach).

That effort will not only satisfy the Superior, but them find what they think they need, which could change under the right Domme. I am always open to light conversations so long as I am not caught up in other things. No matter the case a Woman should be thanked for Her time, and the time She does take to speak to a potential submissive. She should be respected, paid for or not! I do hope this sheds a little bit of light on some new ways of approaching for those who are truly seeking something long or short term that is fulfilling. I do so enjoy My own puppets, but they understand I play when I want to.

Manners, manners, and more manners are needed; how can you say they respect their Superiors but never give proper thanks or requests in a humble way? It is just not possible, so as filthy and disgusting an inferior may think they are strive to show some fucking respect when approaching a Woman! Mind it one submissive may not be Her match, but the submissive could be a match for someone so stop narrowing down odds by playing stupid.

Enjoy the weekend A/all!