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on August 5, 2020
Of course both Dommes and subs are human,there is more to us than a title but sometimes I think it can be forgotten (on both sides) that there is still a person with feelings behind the dominance or submission
Now speaking personally here I think there may be misconceptions that a Domme is heartless, they don't care and such, and that we shouldn't show any emotion or our human side as it makes us seem less dominant, I am more than some kink dispenser
I also think a subs human side gets over looked sometimes, I know some subs post about being nothing more than a walking cash machine and such but they still have feelings and emotions
I think showing emotion can be judged as weak in general kink world or not
In my opinion if you want a genuine and long lasting Domme/sub relationship then you would want to know the person behind it, you would want to embrace each other for all that you are,having that understanding that things can come up and one may need a break and such because you both have lives outisde of kink
Subs how do you feel getting a glimpse of the human side of your Domme? Is it something you want? Does it make a bond stronger on both sides?
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I stay well-aware that my subs are human--humanISH, in some cases--without letting emotions blur lines; walking the line between a 'regular relationship' and one built around rules and parameters is sometimes a delicate balance but, I feel, a necessary one. Might be a hot take, but getting too comfo... View more
It's a tricky balancing act I find. I don't want to give too much away, but also don't wish to come off as a one dimensional character either. As well as I like to treat boys as if they were things, but acknowledge that sometimes you have to let up on them if you want to maintain a good relationship... View more
I've found, at least on this site, that most subs arent interested in the human side. At least those are attracted to me, which sucks. Because That is something highly important to me.