Whales: Defined and How to find them.

Over the years I think this comes up so often that it is about time we talk about it. 
 

Whale:

The definition of a whale changes depending on who you talk to and how long they have been in this business. My definition is this. A whale is someone who drops a four digit or more tip on top of your normal rates. They are as rare but they happen. They usually last around about 3 to 6 months before they will move on to the next Mistress who rocks their world. 
 

How to find them?

This is one of those answers that usally upset the people who ask me this question. I have been in the BDSM world since 2000. I have had a total of 10 whales in this spand of about 20 years. Not one has come to me through my marketing of the findom fetish. 
These whales have found me through other fetishes such as sissification, cuckolding, humiliation and some of the more extreme fetishes such as total power exchange (TPE). They have come from pay per view messages, membership sites and phone sex lines. It doesn't mean they don't enjoy the findom fetish because they do. They just tend to find me through other fetishes that I have a passion for.

My best advice is to really google and research different fetishes. Write blogs about them. Connect and network with both dominants and submissives who enjoy these fetishes to. Keep learning. This is who you will find these whales.

They won't come from random repeat ads of the same words copy pasted from one site to the next. They are attracked to woman who show confidence, creativity and hard work.
 

I wish you the best of luck in landing your first whale.