*Rant* Real Time

I talk to so many subs who are looking to serve, “in real life”. At this point in my domme experience, I am so over subs basically wanting a domme girlfriend. If you want that go to FetLife or some other dating site on the internet! There are plenty! I will not date you. Ever! Or they are long-distance and don't think they can “control themselves” if they don't live in the same city as their domme. That is a huge red flag for me. You are saying you want to serve and you are talking to a potential domme that you really like but you will not go farther because of the distance?! It's now easier than ever to have a long-distance “relationship” with a domme. Also, the fucking fact that you want to meet within a month of speaking to a domme is ridiculous! It's a privilege to meet a domme, not a right! You will want till she says she wants to see you! Then when that happens it will really mean something! Don't get me wrong I am open to meeting a loyal and good sub! I am just so sick of subs coming to me and asking me to fill a kink order for them. I will not! You want me? You will serve on my terms and mine alone. If our kinks align ( they should to make a successful dynamic) then you will have some rewards if earned. Otherwise, fuck off.