This is not easy

Findom is not some easy get rich quick scheme 

Domination in general is not easy not just findom, it is not something you just wake up one day decide to do and become rich or become good at it!

You have to know what you are doing, you have to learn,in fact you never stop learning,you have to keep things safe, you need to do your research,invest time and energy into all you do, you need to have patience and understanding 

It is not about playing dress up and calling someone names, it is not about sitting around and being handed money for nothing.Being mean and cruel does not make you a Domme, you have to enjoy what you do

So many watch vidoes online or TV shows about findom or domination and think that it looks easy,you need to do your research and balance things out

You also need to learn and think about what you enjoy, what excites you, what you want to do and not to do, it is also important to also know your limits and where you want to draw the line

I would also to talk about the sub side of all this as well

So many men think it is easy to be a sub, that they just nod their head and say yes Miss or wear a pair of panties and send a picture 

It may look easy from the outside but what people fail to remeber or don't see are the hours it can take to make one short clip, the years of hard work and dedication it has taken to get where someone is,the time and effort someone puts in to making websites,promoting themsleves or the endless amount of messages and so on that come daily