"For the fun to start"

I honestly dont even know where to begin with this. I chatted with a sub on this site for a month. We had some "fun", he submitted to me as expected, and we even chatted on vanilla terms. Covid-19 blew up, and for about a week things sort of.. were eh. Hard to get that feeling going once its derailed, especially in the beginning. We both agreed, long term domination was our end goal. However, in the beginning of a financial femdom relationship I like to test limits. A boy says he can not offer, he can not offer. That doesnt bother me, as in the beginning things were mutual. 

In the long term scheme of things, quality matters to me, than quantity. The exchange of money is simply a show of power. A power exchange from the submissive to me. Is it the only show of power to be exchanged? No, through interaction... We discover more about what connects us, and how to explore the D/s side of things. We never truly got to the deeper aspects of things, and we "split". Fast forward a week later, I had been thinking about him and messaged him. Apparently he thought of me as well. We chat some more, and I open the opportunity for him to make an offering once more.

His response? When he felt like offering which "obviously remains the indispensable prerequisite for the rest of fun to start", I would be the first to know. 

Lol.

I simply could not respond. The audacity. So let me make something VERY clear for any potential submissives... There is no "fun" to start. I am not a pay for play. I do not sell clips or packages; nor am I business. ((To the Ladies that do? To each their own, exercise your Dominance however you feel)) These factors dont do anything for me, and I dont expect a sub to approach me wanting these factors. When you OFFER something to me, it is because you felt the urge to hand over that weak will of yours, and place it in my CONTROL. Female led total power exchange is my end goal.

So, no. The fun doesnt start when you make an offering, but instead you take the first step down a path of submission to me. 

I wonder, is it common for "the fun to start" once an offering is made? Is that the expectation within the submissive community? The dommes? 

Stay safe and healthy!