Honesty

Honesty is always the best policy! 

Start by being honest with yourself, think about what you truly want, what you desire, what you enjoy, what is a turn off, think about your limits and so on

Subs be honest and realistic about what you can offer a Domme, be honest about the tributes you can send, don't make promises you can't keep just because you think it sounds impressive 

If you can't do something that is asked of you, if you can't send your tribute that week or month then say so don't just run off and hope it will all go away,maybe it is a scary prospect being honest with your Domme,maybe you worry she will not have an interest in you any more if you are honest but I bet (and I am speaking mostly personally here) that if you are honest then she will be pleased you were honest  not punish you for it, if you need to take a break again be honest don't just run off, in being honest you are leaving the door open for any potential return or future contact

I have said many times this a 2 way street don't expcet honesty if you are not going to give it

I am always honest, what you see is what you get with me, I speak my mind

Being honest is essential in a Domme/sub relationship so be honest from the start