The price of findom

I wanted to cover a couple of things in this blog

I have mentioned numerous times that you don't have to be rich to participate in findom but I also said money is subjective so the term "rich" means different things to different people 

The point I am getting at here leads me onto something I want to cover in this blog which is the affordability of findom

It comes down to the  broad question can you afford findom?

I have had a good handful of men tell me they would love to partcipate and explore this fetish but can't afford it but what do they mean by that? 

And most of the time when I ask them they tell me they can't afford to give me what I want or some of them think they have to have hundreds or even thousands in spare cash just lying around to send, I don't know where they get the idea that this is the case, I can only guess from stuff they have seen and read online 

The way I see it is that this is like any other fetish or kink you have to actually enjoy it to begin with,findom goes hand in hand with a lot of other fetishes but it all ultimately it all comes down to you wanting to serve, to sacrifice and so on 

It also something that varies from person to person,what is a lot of money to some is nothing to others,each Domme has different expectations and wants

The type of sub also varies, I have had subs send me one off tributes,I have had subs whos budgets I control,I have subs who have served me long and short term and I have owned subs 

As a Domme I set my own standards and have my own wants and expectations to be met they will be totally different to soemeone elses

The point I am getting at here is there is no such thing in my opinion as not being able to "afford" findom as everyone is different and there is varying types of subs within the fetish,for example a sub might not want to be owned but likes to tribute various Dommes he might send what he has left a week or month to them because that is what he can afford to spare another sub might be owned and sends every last bit of spare money he can afford to send the key here being what you can afford not what you can't, now I am only speaking for myself when I say this but what I mean by what they can afford to send is the money they have saved or what is left when they have paid their rent/mortage and all their bills,food and necessities are covered 

If you have not got enough money to cover an initial tribute again I would not say you can not afford findom because you can save and tribute or you could cover a reimbursement, you don't have to be owned or spend what you have not got to enjoy findom

Also do some research into the Domme you like, speak to her and ask her what she expects you may discover what you are able to offer her will please her and if not there will be a Domme out there that will you be able to please 

Now onto the second part of my blog 

How much does the amount of money count?

I enjoy the sacrifice as well as the money,I like knowing a sub has thought twice about buying themselves something or that they have had one night out less or whatever it may be so they can send the money to me instead,I like that they have thought of me and my happiness and put that first 

Another reason I wanted  to touch upon this is again money is subjective and as said above about affording it,if a sub reimburses a Domme for her lunch some see it is as cheap where others see it as maybe thats all the money he had left and wanted to use it to please a Domme in anyway he could,does the amount matter here or the sacrifice?

I welcome any opinions on all this