Returning Thoughts

Hello everyone,

Some some of You probably couldn't care less about what goes on in my head, but if all subs thought that then none of us would ever post anything ... so here goes!

For those who don't know me, I've been on the site for a number of years but I haven't been active for at least 12 month, probably more. I'd become disillusioned with the scene as a whole (note - not this site), mainly due to an influx of new Dommes who were blissfully unaware of what an actual D's relationship was meant to be. 

Now don't get me wrong, none of us can define a D's relationship as we see it and expect everyone to agree. The point of this scene is that it can be portrayed, experienced and untilmately lived in multple different ways - thats part of the magic of the whole thing. 

The frustration I had was the influx of Dommes who were solely confused on cash with absolutely no intention of including D's. Now if these Ladies want to join the scene that is absolutely fine, but at least have the decency to understand that people have different interests, different views & if 2 people aren't compaitble, go seperate ways. Instead what I was seeing on a daily basis were peoples names getting dragged through the mud for believing in something different. 

I've foud myself back here because its the one place where those differences seem to be acknowleged, understand & encouraged. It's the only place I've really felt safe to be myself and express my views. So this was a very long, drawn out way of telling you all how pleased I am to be back & I hope to speak to a lot of you very soon :)

Sam