It is a 2 way street

Whether you are dominant or submissive things are often a 2 way street

Honesty is something that is of high importance to me,I expect any sub that contacts me to be 100% honest about everything from kinks to hard limits,how much they can afford to tribute and everything inbetween,however it works both ways,I can not expect that honesty without returning it,I like anyone have likes and dislikes,there is things I will not do and ,I have limits,if I feel the sub is not a fit for me or that I don't  enjoy the same kink or fetish I will be upfront about it,I pride myself on my honesty and being honest saves us both time

Safety,trust and saying no,everyone should feel safe and feel that they can be honest and say no,a sub will put his trust and safety into a the hands of a Domme when having a session with her,trusting she will stop when a safety word is used or that she will not leave marks,and a Domme should be able to trust any sub she interacts with,that they will follow thorugh with what they have said or that the sub will stick to and follow any rules when in person

communication,it is another thing that works both ways,ghosting is never ok,if a sub has a change in circumstances or needs to take a break then let the Domme know,but a Domme should also communicate with a sub,nobody wants to be left wondering why or to be left in limbo

A lot of things work both ways,you can not expect things such as honesty and good communication if you are not willing to afford the other person the same