"Loving your Sub/Domme"

I recently started a poll on #findom twitter asking others opinions on "loving" your Dom or sub.

I was surprised to see the difference in responses for that poll.

One of the responses was "falling in love is setting yourself up for heartbreak"

I decided to blog about my feelings on falling for the dom or sub you are working with.

Working in Findom for the last couple of years has taught me many things, I have encountered time wasters, decent subs that disappear and consistent loyal subs. 

Those consistent and loyal subs end up loving every single thing about you. They invest themselves in you financially, mentally and even physically. To be a sub you have to give yourself to your dom/domme, you have to trust them to understand you and be the domme they need you to be. 

It is okay to love your subs. I have 2 sons that have been serving me for over a year and I love them both. They are a part of my every day life. They trust me to help them, guide them, enforce rules that benefit them. They trust me to drain them without truly hurting them. 

I trust them to obey, serve, submit and send. Most importantly, I trust them to be open and honest of their feelings and interest. 

Falling for your dom/sub doesnt mean it will end in heartbreak, it just means you connect and click in your D/S relationship so much that it's LITERALLY A RELATIONSHIP. When and if it ends it can end on good terms. You can still be friends. 

This lifestyle is not about breaking hearts...

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