Financial Domination

Welcome to MY REALM of financial domination!

Note this is a crossover posting from one of MY Pages on My personal blog.

I am a mature BBW Goddess who is both a BDSM Mistress (aka Femdom) as well as a Financial or Money Mistress. I love the feeling of taking your Power from you and assimilating it into ME. Taking who you are and what you have to give to Me for MY amusement and benefit. Allowing you (yes allowing) to kneel and SERVE ME the way I desire and deserve to be SERVED. When it comes to you surrendering yourself, your mind, your will and your money to Me, it becomes one of the most intense experiences you can imagine for both of U/us. Each from the opposite side of the same coin, and ideally should bring satisfaction to both.

Since this is My Financial Domination Page I will focus mainly on the financial domination or financial fetish aspect of it, but take to notice that I include much of my BDSM aspect (aka My KINKS and FETISHES) into the whole whenever possible which is most of the time, since there are very few pure financial slaves out there these days.

Financial Domination is very much a Power Exchange in a very real sense as well. I know a lot of people don't understand that or don't realize just how much Power is transferred with Money being handed over from the submissive partner to Me. We live in a World where Money pretty much equals Power, and for someone to willingly and eagerly hand what they have to work so very hard to accumulate to Me is a Power rush for Me that you can't even begin to understand. With each tribute I receive from the serving boy, sissy or girl, their power lessens in a very real sense and MINE increased naturally. They go with less so I have more. They sacrifice in order to PLEASE ME and assure that I have everything I want, need, desire and could even dream of possessing. It makes no difference at all what I use it for either, for once it is in MY hands it is for Me to do with as I please. I may save it up for My next trip, purchase something I desire to own, pay a bill with it so I don't have to work so hard and can enjoy some additional leisure time, or yes even put it away for retirement. No matter what I ultimately use it for it is something that makes Me happy and that gives Me a feeling of deep seated pleasure. Ideally the one who has surrendered that power to Me will find pleasure and purpose in knowing that his tribute has thrilled Me to no end, made Me smile, and in a very real way has provided something of true value to Me. That his or her sacrifice made Me feel amazing and with that gives Me a feeling of benevolence towards them. It should be arousing to both sides, both physically and mentally, as those natural triggers in each of U/us fire and a feeling of euphoria ensues as W/we each are fully who and what W/we are in a very real way. For the submissive partner in this wonderful ying / yang circle it is the greatest of honors to be permitted to provide such service to Me. Depending on the personality he or she has, it may give them a feeling of pleasure, of humiliation, of shame, of weakness, of living up to a purpose they don't find without and more. Each comes at this from a different point of entry and their journey with Me goes from there.

When it comes to Financial Domination it also becomes about building a relationship or connection from both sides. A structure is put into place which I control, oversee, enforce and keep growing as time goes by. I take charge over many aspects of the submissive individuals kinky life and if possible their vanilla life as well. Always depending on the personal situation they find them-selves in and how deep they are able and willing to go. I become the ONE who takes charge, control and makes the decisions which are so often a burden to the submissive individual. I give them the gift of being able to let go in a save and sound way, which is a gift they will never be able to fully repay Me for, since it is such a deep seated need in them. This alone in an ideal match will lead them to always desire to be the best they can for Me in order to do the best they can for Me and with that make it possible for Me to be proud of having them at My feet and very much in My life.



I become a very important part of their Universe to them, in a very real way a haven in which they can let go of their mask and simply be their true self. It's symbiotic for both sides in as much as I can also be the true core of Myself without fear that this core would inflict undue harm to them. My need to control, to be demanding, to be greedy, to be in charge, to be the Goddess who is to be worshiped, respected and adored, to be unapologetic self-centered at times, feeds into all the needs they have to feed those needs in Me.

In a D/s relationship like that it becomes about not just truly knowing one another (and yes you do need to get to know one another with time probably more than most people will ever know those they surround them-selves with), but more importantly accepting each other for being who we are. Me the superior Goddess before you and you the devoted, reliable and submissive male or female living their life in such a way that it brings Me happiness and satisfies My desires and needs in a selfless and delightful way that makes you who you are.

I want all of you in a D/s relationship and I become everything to you. By assuring that MY needs and desires are met at all times it also assures that your needs and desires of having a purpose that is often hidden from the world met automatically. The very sacrifices you make are at the same time the rewards you receive.

Financial Domination is a very deeply involved symbiotic relationship between Me and you, which takes effort on both sides and if well matched grows over time into something so amazing that is impossible to describe to those who have never experienced it. It's all inclusive on an physical, mental and emotional level, with both sides finding bliss and satisfaction within as well as a feeling of safety and connection which is build on honesty, trust and more. FD/ fs and D/s isn't always just playtime either, but spending quality time together which is very intimate and satisfying as you are without breaking that structure and line enjoy each others company.

Where financial domination is something that is entered into with an eye to building a D/s relationship and for long-term duration, financial fetish is more about quick fixes which are essentially short bursts of enjoyments which only last as long as play time is in action or a fetish interchange takes place. It is still meeting a need but it is not one that goes deep, but only scratches the surface when you have an itch to scratch so to speak.

A financial fetish session may make the boy, sissy, or girl feel submissive while it is taking place, but once it is over that feeling of submission is gone until the next time. It doesn't require a deeper connection between both sides and often doesn't include it either. In many cases those "sessions" are more about the bottom then they are about the top. I often joke and say that here the "Mistress or Goddess" is just a bit of window dressing for the fantasy of submission instead of the focus point of the whole.

For Me as the Goddess it is play time that is effortless and doesn't require much in the end besides allowing the scene to unfold and control it while it does. After that we go our separate way and live our life without worrying about the welfare of each other, which is a big part in financial domination since it is an actual relationship.

Financial fetish sessions are casual encounters without any deeper meaning and with only one purpose a temporary interaction that gives both sides what they want. The fetish boy, sissy, or girl their quick fix in the fetishes they enjoy or a quick emptying of their wallets and Me a moment of amusement and enhancing MY bank account.

Consider it Pro-domination financial style. A kinky transaction in which both sides get what they want without any further obligations after the deed is done.

If Financial Domination is more about a lifestyle both sides share and nurture, then financial fetish is more of a Pro-Domination Session with only lasts as long as the time of the Mistress has been paid for. One goes deep and the other remains surface, but to the person not in the know looks pretty much the same because they only focus on the play aspects instead of the deep connections found in the first.

Financial Domination - serving the Goddess, providing, connection, seeking to do better, power exchange, conditioning and training, all inclusive care for each other, tributes that are eagerly and freely given to show devotion and love, and more. Relationship! Domination / submission!

Financial Fetish - a quick fix for your fetish desires and a payment rendered in order to be permitted to experience that moment of feeling submissive under the Ladies control for as long as the time is paid for without any further obligations after. Casual Encounter! Fetish Business Transactions!

I personally always will prefer the deeper connections of Financial Domination that brings and builds the D/s relationship over time and that is about you putting Me above yourself and Me controlling your life with strictness and care. I find great joy and pleasure in those, and it speaks to Me on a much deeper level which is both euphoric as well as arousing. There is nothing better than taking that power and like I said assimilating it into Me.

I am ok with financial fetish as well when I am in the mood and even within that concept only within as much as I find please in what you seek to experience. You may gain the privilege of having MY control for a short period of time if I find what you have to offer Me pleasing enough and I feel like playing with you when I am not busy with My subs, slaves, puppets, sissies, puppies etc. but you will always at the end of the totem pole when it comes to MY time availability.

I don't believe in cookie cutter domination but take each individual seeker of a place at My feet and determine which path is best for them and what they are most suitable for. Each one in their place, working on enhancing their strength and conditioning them to overcome their weaknesses when it comes to serving Me. I take the best in you and make it better, and over time I train out the not so pleasing habits that would be stumbling blocks for your journey under My control and at My feet.

I have core rules and standards that apply to all who approach Me and you have to be able to meet those in order to gain more than just a couple of minutes of My time. I have been around for many years and have pretty much encountered all the different types of ways boys try to gain attention without providing anything of value to women. They feel entitled to our attention and I disagree with their sentiment. My attention will be given when I see fit to give it and not before. Which means I will get MINE before you get yours!

Now where do you go from here? That is simple. You may contact Me via Skype at MizBellaDonna2you, via email to [email protected], or via MY Mistress Listing.

You will introduce yourself to Me politely and correctly, using your best manners, addressing Me correctly as Ma'am, and letting Me know if you are looking for an opportunity to gain your place as MY submissive (financial domination) or if you are looking for a fetish session. KNOW who and what you are and what it is you are seeking, because I will be able to tell very quickly and if you misrepresent yourself to Me you'll be blocked instantly.

I do require a show of sincerity and appreciation of MY time when you make contact with Me. No that is not being jaded so don't even lip off to Me (again you'll be blocked if you act stupid). If you are hoping to gain the pleasure of serving Me this should be common sense anyways to show your eagerness and I shouldn't even have to ask for a tribute for My time. If you are looking for a fetish session you aren't going to get it without payment anyways, so again make those minutes I grand you before deciding your fate count.

For those seeking to become one of Mine that first initial contact will be the start of getting to know one another to see if W/we can match. I will ask you questions and you may ask questions of Me as well. Do NOT wait for Me to bring up tributes, that should be offered by you for the privilege. You may ask Me how I prefer them or go on My tributes options page to see what I enjoy most.

Goddess Bella Donna