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Lifetime Member
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Lifetime Member
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Suburbia is a scary place to me. I can not imagine living 20' away from the house next door and having everyone on my street in matching homes and cars. I have never been into the cookie cutter lifestyle. Having a sidewalk that connects me to every other person would be my own personal Hell. I love living out in the country, with my own 'space' and privacy.
There are times that interactions with people online enter this form of "suburbia" where it all looks and feels the same across the board. The conversations, the results, everything about it feels as if it's the same 'house' that I just passed. Those are the moments that I really stop and evaluate all of my relationships.
As a Domme, I feel like I have a responsibility to the Subs I accept. I am in charge of their mental care, their journey. They have put their trust in me to take them down a very personal path, and I owe them the care and time they deserve. When I become disinterested in them, it's my duty to let them go. It's not always a fault of theirs, and not always a fault of mine. It's simply human nature that some connections will not Spark.
I have released Subs who weren't keeping me out of Suburbia. Just as I believe I have responsibilities as a Domme, I believe Subs have a burden to carry also. It's on your shoulders to go above and beyond the cookie cutter mentality of Suburbia. If you want to capture and hold my attention, you have to be the Red Corvette on the street full of tan minivans.