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I posted this a long time ago and thought it might be helpful to some of the new boys. I've added a little to what I said before; I'm not scolding anyone, just offering a reminder.
When approaching a Mistress/Domme for the first time, your opening comments are your first impression and if you blow it, don't expect a reply (not a friendly one anyway). I can't speak for other Dommes but can I tell you that I do not enjoy reading "Hello Mistress, can I be your Sub" over and over from you boys.
I realize that many of you are just here (and everywhere) to get attention wherever you can, that just getting a reply is enough to make your little dick happy. However, if you are even remotely serious about finding the One, the Mistress that fits you perfectly, try to think through what you're trying to say before you hit Send.
Begin with a very short but descriptive bio of yourself, what you're searching for, and ask politely if she is interested in a conversation with you. I don't suggest sending a picture unless she asks.
If you are asked what you like, do not reply "to be dominated". That can mean 100's of different things. If you can't take the time to be descriptive in your questions and answer, don't expect me or anyone else to take the time to reply. It's assumed that you are interested in Financial Domination because you are on this site, but it's also a good idea to explain some of your other Fetish interests also.