A little bit ABOUT ME.

All About Me.... My thought Process and How I do things. 

I am all about respect and the relationship built between a Domme and her sub. Setting clear boundaries that should not be crossed but at the same time building a great D/s relationship. I know everyones protocols are different and many may think that my type of Domination is "weak" or "wrong". I personally feel like you dont have to be a complete asshole sttraight from the jump to every sub just to prove you are dominant. I understand and respect it if that is your style of Domination. Do you, If that is who you are then I respect that. However it isn't how I do things because it isn't who I am as a person and I dont want to be fake and dishonest just because others might think it isn't the "right" way to be a Domme. We each have our own style and that is ok. As long as we are true to ourselves then that is what matters. Dont get me wrong, I am certainly strict and will take zero shit. If a sub crosses me or tries to take advantage of my time or attention they will certainly not enjoy how it ends up for them. I will not put up with nonsense or childish behavior either. You get one warning, after that you are not worth my time and you will be kicked to the curb faster than you can process what has just hapened. Why spend my time dealing with subs that truly dont care about serving well? That are only in it to try and piss off Dommes to get punished? Nope.... I dont play games with self serving subs. I also do not do cam. I'm very open about it, I don't enjoy it so I dont do it. I think its great if other Dommes do it, you do what makes you happy! Personally I dont enjoy it and I dont feel it is necessary for me to sit on cam in order to give my subs the full experience of my type of domination. I will seldomly go on cam as a major reward for a long term loyal sub that has bee with me for a long time, But not regularily. I do things my way and I dont negotiate with subs about how I do things. My time, attention, praise, acknowledgment, and pleasure is what a sub shuould be striving to achieve. Not seeing me perform on cam for them. That is not my job. Like I said before... I understand that man Domme love this and truly feel it is a major part of who they are as Domme... I support that. I am just saying what my personal thought process is on it and what works for me. I dont want to start doing things I hate because others feel it needs to be done. I love Findom and I certainly dont want to change that by forcing myself to do things I dont want to just because certain subs prefer it. If you as a sub enjoy that then by all means find a Domme that also enjoys it. But I am not the Domme for you. I have had subs try to change my mind about this and it wont happen. I dont care how much you tribute, I wont do it. I have found that I can be a successful Domme and still stay true to my way of doing things so I wont mess around with subs that try to change my mind. If you feel the need to try and negotiate with me then you are not a true sub in my eyes. A true sub that wants nothing but to serve and please a Domme will do what it takes and not put thier own wants and needs ahead of the Dommes by trying to change her mind. Simply find another Domme or shut up and deal with how I do things. Moving on.... I enjoy giving out tasks that are not always sexual or fetsih oriented in nature. Things that help a sub get to know who I am as a person... Things to expand thier knowledge and give them new experiences in life. This is important to me. I want those who serve me to have an open mind and push themselves to experience things that I enjoy. Things that they may have not ever thought of doing normally in thier daily life. Self awareness and exploration of who you are as a person is something I enjoy having subs explore further. I also enjoy full control. After trust has been built up I like to slowly move into total financial control, that is one of the sexiest and most fufilling ways that a submissive can show thier willingness to please and thier dedication to thier Domme. Trust and honesty is so important and I think that total control is a great way to build on that as time goes on. Keeping things exciting and new every step of the way. You can see why I say I enjoy longterm Domination over short term. I will do short term or sessions sometimes.... If I am in the mood to do so. However I wont just allow anyone to serve me. I'm quite specific about the types of subs that are allowed in my circle of pets.... even if its short term. Respectful subs get much further with me than the ones that message saying " Hey Sexy!" or " Hi... Sessions?" I mean there is really no better way to get me to ignore your message than to approach me in that way. So.. If you are interested in serving me and would like to know more... PM me and tell me a little about yourself and have your tribute ready. Those who come to me without having a tribute ready will be ignored because this is Findom. Period. I am a Findomme. You knew when you came into my DMs that a tribute was going to be required at some point. So approaching me without one is just disrespectful and I dont deal with disrespect as I said earlier. I will be writing more of these blogs in the future, to help you get to know me better as a Domme. Thank you for reading.